Had two dates with two different girls (yesterday and today) and I don't know what it is, but I can't make a move.

We meet up, talk about different stuff and from there I'm struggling to get sexual. I know about the escalation ladder, I try to be a little bit touchy from the beginning.. but I don't really "feel" it.

Like I want to fuck but instead I talk with them about any kind of topic and I struggle to lead it somewhere else from there.

I think there's something blocking me, I feel like I'm waiting for them to make some sort of a move (e.g get closer to me or something) so I can have a confirmation from her. I was able to do this before but I can't anymore.

Someone with the same experience here? Got any tips?