Since I found this sub - I believe it’s almost a year now - I’ve been improving myself and I’ve tried to apply the guidelines to my own life. Ladies, it’s like my eyes finally opened to reality and I can see how men REALLY are and treat me.

This evening I visited an old colleague who always had interest in me and the old me found him also interesting. Side note: I only visited him because there was a girl friend I visited earlier living in the same building and I just wanted to drop by to say hi, because we were getting along when we worked together.

I didn’t see him for almost a year as well and when I got there, I was appalled. His apartment stank, he didn’t smell nice either and he was being rude by playing on his phone. He was eating a pizza and burped without saying any excuses. He also put his smelly feet towards me on the couch. I sat there in disbelief for a few minutes and then told him I was leaving and thanked him sarcastically for this “exciting and engaging conversation”. He then had the audacity to ask if I could visit the next day, when he was less tired. I simply told him “no” without explanation.

The old me would have been more forgiving, but the FDS me doesn’t tolerate this behavior. I will never accept lack of hygiene, rudeness and being an overall LVM. Thank you so much for teaching me and other ladies how to step up your game. I haven’t been dating since several months just because there hasn’t been ONE worthy candidate. And you know what: I don’t mind, because I only want the best. You truly are amazing!