In my dating history, I was always on the tenterhooks with NVM instead of truly feeling happy, valued and comfortable. So this serves as a nice reminder🍁

azureangel35 · 2020-12-02T12:43:39+00:00

this is really important. I didn't realize those "butterfly feeling" I got when waiting for a text was actually anxiety until I cut him loose.

husheveryone · 2020-12-02T08:50:39+00:00

Moody men are the worst. Ugh, never again!

2020-12-02T08:41:13+00:00

Sounds way to familiar, unfortunately

vardebi · 2020-12-02T16:35:26+00:00

"Do I feel happy, valued and comfortable with this person?" is a great vetting question. And yeah, narcissists... I will never forget the moment after I broke up with my last (as in final) LVX, the phrase that just laid itself across my mind was "I'm so relieved not to have to love you anymore."

Title	In my dating history, I was always on the tenterhooks with NVM instead of truly feeling happy, valued and comfortable. So this serves as a nice reminder🍁
Author	futuristicallyangry
Upvotes	295
Comments	5
Date	December 2, 2020 7:38 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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