Why does it irritate me / affect me so much knowing someone else is banging my ex?

antioch94 · 2021-01-29T10:33:33+00:00

You probably don’t have other chicks
you invested emotionally in your ex, she dumped you and moved on. Women prepare before they breakup that’s why men suffer more. It hits you fast and hard
you have wrong blue pill ideas about relationships. You may have accepted the Red Pill but you’re not completely free of the conditioning from your Blue pill past. You’re conditioned to react and feel a certain way about women.
You need more time to digest all this stuff here and more focus on yourself so other things are not your focus anymore. That also needs time.

LukeSkycocker69 · 2021-01-29T09:40:47+00:00

Because getting dumped isn't supposed to be fun maybe

NightwingTRP · 2021-01-29T11:00:49+00:00

Residual emotional bonding effects. It'll pass with time. Focus on getting yourself in order and ready to get out there and date some more women.

________O0O________ · 2021-01-29T10:41:40+00:00

I too feel like a lot of my resentment and hurt with regard to my ex could be because 1) I was emotionally invested, 2) I found out she was already banging behind my back and left me to bang more.

If I would’ve been banging, idk if I would be reminiscing her.

Also, how much ever we may deny, we were raised in blue pill environments and deep inside we all want to find that one perfect girl. We use red-pill but we are all conditioned blue-pillers. Aren’t we all sizing up all the girls we fuck against ‘the one’ we have built an image about in our minds?

T-toborn · 2021-01-29T10:05:28+00:00

Men are naturally possessive over women, can change your view of women to get around it

nozibeen · 2021-01-29T11:39:37+00:00

Because u are a massive truecel

Lousycabbage · 2021-01-29T11:00:49+00:00

Bette you're such a loser, this is a place where people come to make changes to their lives. If you don't have it in you, leave

Title	Why does it irritate me / affect me so much knowing someone else is banging my ex?
Author	ToniaLagrone
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	January 29, 2021 9:16 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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