Hey guys,

I am a 25 yo virgin guy and given my huge progress last year, there is some chance I finally start having sex this year. But I realized there was another danger besides not having sex : being trapped into that sort of relationship where the girl is not that much into you, she's not willing to have that much sex or to do that position.

My problem is that as a 25 yo virgin male, I can't afford being trapped into that sort of relationship : if I'd find such a relationship and stay there for 2 years, I'd just become a 27yo almost virgin male. In short, I really must not waste my time.

How do you find out that a relationship with any girl, whether it is plain dating, FWB or LTR, is turning into that sort of "boring" relationship? How do you distinguish between a passionate relationship where the girl really is into you and a relationship where she's not in an objective, unbiased way?

I had the idea of absolutely refusing exclusivity, regardless of my feelings, if we were not having sex at least twice a week or if she was refusing stuff like blowjob for more than X weeks, but I guess this is not enough. I was also thinking about cutting any relationship (including FWB or plain dating) where we would not end up having sex at least once a week, but from what I understood while reading here, this might be too strict : a girl can call you when she is ovulating. And fucking different girls every week is fine for me as well.

Thanks in advance