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1

Actual 8’s, 9’s, and 10’s are an absolute fkn headache to deal with. Never ever ever take these ones seriously. Date 7’s that think they’re 6’s. That’s the sweet spot.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/23 11:24 PM
1

This is an obvious soft next
/r/askTRP11/06/21 04:05 PM
3

Having options brings more options. It’s doesn’t matter if they are all fatties. You will start acting different (unconsciously), when you have options. That, “I can get laid whenever I want” swagger, will start to pull other chicks.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 09:34 AM
1

Like a hooker pretending to be into you?
/r/askTRP11/06/21 09:28 AM
1

I will normally find a spot closer to them, and recommend we go there. They will normally say something about it being close to them, you can offer to pick them up from their place. Or set something up at their place DURING the date while your game is on point. They normally more comfortable fucking at their place. I don’t like girls knowing where I live, too many problems. They have to be heavily vetted first.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 09:17 AM
2

Go to the hood bro, they all over the place.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 09:10 AM
9

Bad news, that’s every girl. Sorry bro.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 01:54 PM
17

You date and assess, then you can either roll into a plate or continue to date.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 12:14 PM
2

Dirty talk needs to escalate just like kino does. Start with something light then back off a little bit, then come back with something a little dirtier. Repeat. Example: Me: I bet you like your hair pulled don’t you? Her: What? That’s random. Me: Yeah, I’m onto you... (suspicious eyes) Her: ??? (you can get a ton of responses here, if positive continue, otherwise go ahead and back off; change topic completely) (A few minutes later we escalate) Me: Do you like to be choked too? I’m getting that v…
/r/askTRP05/06/21 12:08 PM
14

1: ALWAYS be perusing other options. 2: As long as she responding, always be closing. 3: Who cares if she getting a bunch of other dick or not, all we care about is if she getting your dick. 4: Don’t “point blank” anything. Be the dude that’s cool with whatever, just don’t be a fool.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 11:11 AM
11

Make them fight to the death for your dick. Side note, you may lose one or two to a homeboy. But as long as the majority of them want you, they will feed off each other and want you more. Fuck the hottest 1 or 2, if a couple become buddies you can swing a three some pretty easily.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 11:06 AM
7

You don’t have her hot and bothered yet. She playing the “I’m not a slut” relationship game. Even though she’s probably a total slut with the right guy. Anyway she’s 19 and you’re going for drinks? That’s gonna be hard to do. All 3 of your options suck if you’re tryina hit it. Don’t ask her recommendations for anything, tell her what you are doing. The other 2 obviously don’t get you laid (by her). Tell her y’all gonna grab food at some place near your house. But if she wants to drink she gotta …
/r/askTRP05/06/21 10:55 AM
1

I don’t know man, maybe because they just don’t like your personality. Maybe they don’t like how you treat her, maybe they jealous, maybe they think you stole their friend away. Maybe they just dumb hoes, who knows. I usually had the opposite problem, her, her friends, her sisters and cousins, they all wanna fuck me. But I wouldn’t ever talk to them, I didn’t really give af.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 10:38 AM
59

She’s a plate, so who cares what she is doing. This is what makes a plate a plate, it’s the best part of having a plate. You don’t have to care. So many guys are missing this point. If you have been treating your plate like a plate, then DO NOT roll her into an LTR. Because you should be treating her like a whore, and you don’t LTR a whore. Girls who have had a solid upbringing with plenty of attention from their dad, they don’t plate well. But they do make better options for an LTR. At the end …
/r/askTRP05/06/21 10:29 AM
3

Yeah, but what’s important is that you can fuck the ones that don’t think you are their type too. And they all plate exactly the same. Always remember; it’s just your turn, she ain’t special, AWALT.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 10:20 AM
1

Trying to pretend they don’t want the dick as badly as they do. I’ve fucked every girl on the first date that said we weren’t gonna fuck on the first date. Kind of a similar thing happening here.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 10:12 AM
1

All of my matches were from a prompt or one picture because of my smile. Other pictures were me doing stuff, clearly in different places. Beach, mountains, desert, Vegas, etc.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 10:09 AM
1

Other than what people already said about pictures... The questions/answers are boring for the girls man. Respond to questions in a way girls will want to ask about it. I’d pick different questions all together. But for example, “I’m overly competitive about... Baking, I bet you can’t make a better cake” or whatever, the point is you are adding room for a response, and a lot of girls bake. Most don’t give af about how you perform in basketball, unless you getting paid in the NBA. Another example…
/r/askTRP05/06/21 10:05 AM
1

Eat the ass, eat the puss, suck the toes, as long as she took a shower recently it’s all good.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 09:47 AM
1

If you’re actually working towards something it’s fine. Try working on it at Starbucks or something, even some place with WiFi and a happy hour. Get to know the employees. That way you’re not a total social outcast.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 09:44 AM
1

Look for something else but don’t quit, you can learn a lot in sales.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 09:40 AM
1

Who cares, do everything exactly the same. Escalate, always be closing, if she’s hot and bothered enough she will definitely suck your dick, lick your balls, and even your ass if you’re really on point.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 09:37 AM
3

This might be terrible advice, but... Do everything already mentioned. 100% on point, diet on point, gym on point, approach 10 girls a day (not at your gym or work), chat up girls on a dating app to practice text game (say yes to all of of them), make progress towards a better career or way of making more money. Then if and ONLY if, you have done everything 100% for 1 month, and you still didn’t get laid. Then you earned yourself a hooker. Rinse and repeat.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 09:34 AM
1

Laughing, enjoying yourself, desire, passion, having fun. These are emotions, girls like these emotions. Just don’t be a needy bitch, and don’t complain about shit.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 09:23 AM
5

It’s great, dating apps made shit way too easy. You still get better looking girls in the field though.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 06:59 AM
1

There is nothing to be sure about. Block her and move on. Don’t go digging in the trash.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 09:33 AM
4

Just write “blocked” on a post-it note and stick it to their forehead.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 09:32 AM
4

Block them.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 09:20 AM
5

She’s either not attracted or you failed the shit tests you think you passed.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 09:19 AM
13

Maybe she wants to push your buttons and she can’t if you too damn chill. Or, more likely. You are a pushover, and haven’t set enough boundaries, or told her no enough. And she just wants you to show some manliness. Not actually get angry, but put her in her place so she knows you’re a man.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 09:16 AM
5

You get attention from women all the time it’s no big deal. You don’t need some other dudes bitch and the drama that comes with it. That’s how you should be thinking.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 09:11 AM
5

If you want to forget her fast, gotta meet and bang other girls. Otherwise it takes time, fill the time you would have spent with her doing shit you always wanted to do, or with healthy habits, or making more money.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 09:08 AM
1

Girls 28+ always say that shit. Tell them what they want to hear (you can provide), then fuck them good. Then back off. Let them hit you up, you only meet them to fuck. You are now an Alpha provider, they are now plates. You provide nothing but a goal they will never achieve, YOU. P.S. Wear a condom!
/r/askTRP31/05/21 08:56 AM
15

Congratulations, you’re on her level now. Except she doesn’t feel bad about it.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 08:46 AM
10

Show up later, when people already have drinks in them. Dance with as many different girls are you can, doesn’t even matter. Do rounds after (like later in the night, when they are taking a break from dancing), find the girls that still look interested. Do some version of “it’s loud in here, let’s go somewhere we can talk”, pull outside or to a more chill bar nearby (take her friends along if you have to, be cool about it). Escalate, whisper dirty shit into her ear, get her too hot and bothered …
/r/askTRP31/05/21 08:42 AM
6

I’m 33 went to a club full of ~21-26 year olds (some looked younger but it’s 21+ only supposedly). Everything went great, had girls checking me out like crazy, danced with some, took one home. But at the same time there were some dudes maybe a couple years older than me that looked out of place. They were dressed like professors or something. They got shot down quite a bit then left. My point being, don’t dress or act like an older dude unless the occasion calls for it. These guys probably would…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 08:24 AM
1

You’re fine bro, don’t even worry about it.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 08:08 AM
2

MMA would be best if you’re only gonna pick one.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:27 AM
1

25-29 here
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:09 AM
2

Have strong values, know what you want, what you like, and be very set in your ways about it. Think of an old man that’s kind of an ass hole (not saying be an ass hole) they generally have a very strong frame and don’t really give af about what anyone has to say about it.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 02:15 PM
2

Then don’t show it, but your frame isn’t strong enough it bothers you.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 01:57 PM
2

Exactly
/r/askTRP30/05/21 01:45 PM
3

If you cave into their frame by letting the insults bother you or change how you behave.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 01:40 PM
1

Sounds like they are reluctantly in your frame.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 01:36 PM
3

Given 2 guys, equal in everything but looks. The better looking one wins.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 11:42 AM
2

You handled it fine, except for your current raging insecurity. Kino, high energy, talkative, that just makes a creepy dude creepier. It doesn’t really mean shit. If she’s not attracted to him, all the kino in the world won’t change that.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 11:36 AM
5

ALL women are like that... It’s in their genes not where they live.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 11:22 AM
64

You probably just feel better about yourself after working out. Doesn’t sound like a testosterone issue, sounds like a masterbation issue.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 11:18 AM
8

It’s only gay if it’s going in your ass.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 08:32 AM
5

To get married, raise a family, live happily ever after, inside of a castle, that I pay for by slaying dragons, while riding a unicorn.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 08:31 AM
1

You pay people like me, to hang out with people like you.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 08:24 AM
10

Bro, you’re the shit. Why wouldn’t she want to talk to you? She hasn’t talked to anyone in months.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 08:19 AM
5

Fraggin like a pro
/r/askTRP30/05/21 08:17 AM
1

Definitely 100% talk to and flirt with all the other girls. You literally think the opposite of what you should be doing. Girls want a challenge, they want a guy that’s already taken, they want a guy that their friends want, they wanna be the one who got that dude all the other girls were trying to get. Then guess what? Their friends or the other girls at the party are gonna want to take you from her. And it just gets easier and easier until you fucked everyone that was at the party.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 08:15 AM
1

Eh, more like they are trying to break your frame. Do you have a specific example?
/r/askTRP30/05/21 08:04 AM
5

Should have asked “what’s in it for me” then laughed at whatever she responded with and leave. Bet she fucks next time.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 08:03 AM
11

Just be fuckin chill. At 42 they know everything. You game one way for 20yr olds, another way for 30, and another way for 40+. She’s no longer on a biological clock. That changes things. Just be a chill dude, not clingy in any way whatsoever. Let her pull your dick out instead of you pulling her titties out. She probably just wants to fuck and you did something that made her think you want something more. 42 most likely doesn’t want to marry or date someone 12+ years younger. She just wants to f…
/r/askTRP30/05/21 07:58 AM
1

Most girls have that one dude they would submit too, unless they are a lesbian. But I’m sure there is an exception or two.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 07:37 AM
1

Because I was available at 4pm, sorry bro.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 07:34 AM
1

Simple answer is to do shit you actually want to do. Set smaller achievable goals to keep yourself motivated. Achieving a goal feels good and makes you want to keep going, that’s why smaller more frequent goals is better.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 07:27 AM
2

Treat it like a game. Smile, wink, stick your tongue out, do something to make them look away first. It’s really not a big deal. I’ll start dates by staring into their fucking soul, making them uncomfortable. Not in a creepy way, but in a go ahead, try to entertain me kind of way. When you can stare a smoking hot 10 right in her eyes like she ain’t shit. You become confident, she becomes nervous. You win, now you just gotta hold that frame until you are done with her.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 07:20 AM
1

I fuck every girl with the intention of being the nastiest mother fucked they ever been with. Once you show your nasty side they will most likely show theirs, and things get a lot more fun. (No I ain’t licking my cum out they pussy or letting them fart in my mouth. I try to be as nasty as possible but some of y’all beat me for sure)
/r/askTRP30/05/21 07:09 AM
2

Purposely start the day with the intention of disagreeing with everyone and nothing is okay. Do it a few times to shake the agreeableness out of your system.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 07:04 AM
3

That’s a beautiful DRESS > YOU are so beautiful Simple
/r/askTRP30/05/21 07:00 AM
1

Sounds like you might be trying to fill a void in your life with sex (previously porn) and you really just need a purpose in your life to focus on. Having sex and saying you did something today isn’t gonna cut it. Food, water, shelter, sex; those are the basics, it’s time for something more.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 06:57 AM
1

The pics are good but kinda dark and sad when put together. I second some of the advice on here already. A picture with the dog while on a hike or something with some sunshine.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 06:51 AM
2

“It feels even better” Would have been the ideal reply. Peeks her interest, makes her wonder about what it feels like. Gets the hamster going.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 06:46 AM
1

I don’t really give a fuck about what most people have to say, most of the time. Steer the conversation into something you want to talk about. Just escalate if you’re bored. Her: Blah blah blah... You: I bet you’d look sexy all tied up Her: (blushing) That’s random You: How do you feel about blindfolds? And just like that it’s more interesting.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 06:42 AM
2

You are not her dancing monkey. Hit her up in a week and see if she’s down to kick it
/r/askTRP30/05/21 06:34 AM
2

Just don’t let them walk all over you. If their acting like a child, call them on that shit. And there’s no need to be a dick about it, unless they are being disrespectful on purpose. “Hey can you put that back? I don’t like other people touching that guitar. Feel free to use the other one.” “Cook whatever you want, just wash the dishes you use.” “No shoes on the carpet” It’s simple shit really
/r/askTRP30/05/21 06:30 AM
2

Just fade away. No need to end it end it. You’re just busy now and you will hit them up when you have time. The time may never come, oh well.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 06:19 AM
2

You run out of money while chasing women, but you never run out of women while chasing money.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 06:16 AM
2

You should game girls and try to get laid in your free time. Do not let it interfere with any goals you have. Ideally you can accomplish both. Young guys tend to focus on getting laid too much, especially virgins. Get you dick wet by a few DIFFERENT girls asap, so that you are confident in your ability to do so; then move on to focusing more and more on yourself.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 06:13 AM
2

Hinge, 28-32 year olds are pretty easy
/r/askTRP28/05/21 12:12 AM
2

Online game is here to stay and it’s easy af. So you may as well hop on that for starters. No reason not to. Then focus on day game, if you can learn to pull during the day you’re pretty much set.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 08:35 AM
1

Trick question, because they all do it.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 08:31 AM
1

There are a million reasons to block someone. When I was in an LTR I’d block plates while I was at home so nothing would pop up, then unblock them when I left.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 08:28 AM
3

You can now meet at her place instead of the bus stop
/r/askTRP27/05/21 08:16 AM
5

Always be closing
/r/askTRP27/05/21 08:15 AM
2

Yeah, you can hit. She most likely wants to have you line up for when she leaves the dude she’s with.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 08:13 AM
1

It’s almost always better to hold value that can’t be bought. Sure there might be a girl or 2 that aren’t into it, fuck them. Masculine frame and a physique built on hard work, are free to attain and extremely valuable. Sprinkle in some money and you’ll be drowning in bitches.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 08:03 AM
1

I literally see smoking hot chicks with short jacked gym bros daily.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 07:48 AM
6

Always, always, ALWAYS! Take the gym seriously, come on man. People always do it after the break up, should be a priority over any bitch.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 07:39 AM
1

I wouldn’t ask. And it’s not your burden, you don’t control anyone but yourself. So you shouldn’t worry about anyone but yourself.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 07:16 AM
1

Boundaries make you sexy. Set some. Side note: You are always in your head about being good in bed? Don’t even worry about this shit. I’ve barely touched some girls and made them cum 8 times, I’ve 2 hour marathon fucked other girls that never came the whole time. It’s mostly on them, they get in their own heads and fuck up their own orgasm. Here’s what you CAN do, dirty talk like crazy, and try to keep their head in the game. They can’t think of stupid shit if you talking dirty and making them c…
/r/askTRP26/05/21 09:03 AM
6

Bill fucking Gates couldn’t keep his wife. You know how much ass is fittina be thrown at him? Wife still left though.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 08:51 AM
5

So she wants you to sit around and wait to see if her other plans fall through? Fuck that. Don’t text her back for awhile, and when you do, give her another day as an option. I would not agree to wait and see what happens with her shit.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 08:46 AM
3

You’re not fucked, but you should always be escalating. If she’s down to hang out again I wouldn’t even worry about it. Just don’t leave her hanging on the second date or she might think you aren’t interested.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 08:39 AM
9

She fucked dudes before you, she gonna fuck dudes after you. So what if she fucking dudes now. Who cares. Move on if it bothers you, fuck her when she comes around if it doesn’t.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 08:35 AM
6

Yes it’s normal. Now start approaching these girls. Get jacked, approach until your game is tight, fuck enough women until you realize they ain’t shit, then live your life with women in back of your mind instead of the front.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 08:30 AM
1

Yeah. The key to texting, or talking at all. Is to not say dumb shit. At least not until after you get the ass. Once they are interested, it’s your job to not talk them out of it. You can easily say something dumb, creepy, or boring and kill whatever interest they had. It’s always better to say nothing than something stupid.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 08:08 AM
1

If you can’t hold interest, text for logistics only. If you can be legitimately funny, or get them all hot and bothered whenever you text them. Then feel free to do your thing. I had a match, and held this girl’s attention with dirty talk for 2 weeks before I had time to actually meet up with her. She was sending nudes daily, and was dtf as soon as she opened the door. My point is, it’s possible to be good at texting. The rule to only text for logistics is for the majority.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 07:53 AM
1

She the perfect LTR; as long as you don’t mind her fucking other guys and eventually leaving you anyway.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 09:35 AM
24

You only live once
/r/askTRP14/05/21 09:19 AM
2

Taking L after L is all the motivation I need to keep going. The real hard part (for me anyway) is when your pulling some ass, but not the quality you want; when you look pretty good, but not as lean as you want. Then you get content and you really gotta push through that shit. I wish I still had the motivation I did taking L after L.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 07:17 AM
1

I use em, fuck what everyone else says. Nothing says I’m busy like a single laugh emoji 2 hours later and nothing else.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 09:50 AM
32

I used to think about this stuff back in the day. Once I finally grasped the look (vibe, connection, whatever you wanna call it) I realized how many opportunities I had missed in the passed. Anyway. The key to making it not awkward is to not hesitate. Also don’t go in with too much tongue, build up to that. You can pull her into it if you want, don’t be too aggressive with it though if it’s your first kiss.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 09:44 AM
6

Get a lawyer, see your kid. Nothing else matters.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 09:36 AM
45

No. She’s a plate now as far as you are concerned. You no longer give a fuck what she does.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 06:15 PM
1

This. Everything should be made into a challenge if you can. It’s more fun and they usually accept the challenge. One of my favorites: “I bet you can’t fit my whole dick in your mouth”.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:24 PM
2

It’s okay for plates to be hoes, you don’t have to LTR everyone.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:19 PM
2

Everyone here telling you to break up and find a girl with a higher sex drive. Just wanna say be careful. I was with this one chick that wanted to fuck non-stop and it literally got exhausting. I’m cool with once or even three times a day. But once you’re at 4+ times a day and some BJs thrown in... Man is it exhausting. Also I still miss her sometimes, for the same reason.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:43 AM
1

I like a buddy for the grenade coverage.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:31 AM
2

I fuckin hate talking to people, they sure do like talking to me though. Sales job will get you there. I used to sale hot tubs, talked to all sorts of people. Especially helpful if you get a commission. Also it’s asocial not antisocial, that shit drives me nuts.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:28 AM
2

Thoughts? He’s fuckin weird. He doing his thing though.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:22 AM
1

“If you show me them titties I might let you come over later”... “Solid tits, but I forgot I’ve got plans later; free Wednesday”?
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:21 AM
1

This makes me think. Can an alpha widow become an alpha hoe (bride?) again if she runs into a dude who is even more alpha? Or is she not even really open to another guy to find out?
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:17 AM
7

No... Why do you even have time for this. How about you make yourself better with that time? That way if she fucks up, she is easily replaced. And guess what happens when you can easily replace her? She is less likely to fuck up. If she gonna cheat she gonna cheat, whether you snoop through her shit or not. So why even bother wasting your time with this.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 11:06 AM
10

Learn to fight. Take boxing or mma classes or whatever.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 11:00 AM
1

No... just no. A pollo and some chinos would work a lot better.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 12:32 PM
0

Definitely lift, shorter guys usually have more aesthetic muscle insertions. Boots are what you wear now, build a style you like around boots (Cowboy boots, timberland boots, motorcycle boots, Chelsea boots, etc.) and in some inserts and you can easily hit 5’8” which is equal to for greater than most girls. Slim fitting clothes make you appear taller, keep that in mind. Get your money right, you’ll be 7 feet tall standing on all that cash. And go all in on gaming girls NOW while it’s hard and wa…
/r/askTRP26/12/20 12:29 PM
9

You’re a virgin and will most likely get very wrapped up in the first girl that fucks. While many will advise you not to, you’re probably gonna do it anyway. So to answer your question. Always be on your way out, always be getting better, always be talking to other girls, always have options. That’s how you keep them fucking your brains out. If she thinks you’re cheating, when you’re not; then you’re doing it right. Also, don’t go out of your way to prove you’re not cheating either. Let it alway…
/r/askTRP26/12/20 12:15 PM
6

Women are whores by nature. Men imposed rules on society to subdue the nature of women as much as possible. Now those rules are no longer effective and women are free to be whores again.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 08:10 AM
7

Who cares? Come on man.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 11:53 AM
12

Finasteride, Nizoral shampoo, and minoxidil will save almost anyone. I let mine go though, I look good bald.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 05:37 AM
1

That’s actually more red pill than MGTOW
/r/askTRP17/12/20 01:36 PM
1

A birthday is just another day, it doesn’t really mean shit. Set goals, get better. You don’t need anyone. I create my own happiness by accomplishing my own goals.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 01:18 PM
4

She been cheating for sure. It’s hard but you gotta move on bro. You gotta stop trying to contact her, it’s just dragging out the whole recovery process. She wasn’t special, she was convenient. McDonald is gone and now you gotta go into the forest and hunt your own food. And that sucks, until you get good at it.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 01:14 PM
1

I wouldn’t, but you do you. There’s a reason ghosting works.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 01:00 PM
1

Nah, Ignore. You want to post something, to make that contact. Don’t. Let her wonder why you ain’t say shit. Let her follow up later because it’s killing her inside. Keep posting shit though so it’s clear you are active.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:56 PM
10

“I know it’s all about social circle” that’s your problem. You pick the one thing you don’t have and you blame that. You don’t need a social circle, you need to be better than you are. No girl ever said “I don’t wanna date the good looking rich dude because he ain’t got friends”. Also, are you a virgin? Pussy honestly ain’t THAT great. You know what’s great? Becoming great.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:50 PM
150

All girls want the top dog. It’s universal. Increase that SMV. Kill more ISIS than anyone else or whatever.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:42 PM
3

Might sound stupid. When something I need to do comes to mind, I just start a countdown. Kinda like the cold approach 3 second rule. 3..2..1.. Go. Unless I am currently busy in which case I set a reminder or make a list. Lists are underrated, relieves so much stress just writing it down so you can stop thinking about it until later.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:37 PM
5

Seems fine. Make sure to tell her what color panties to wear. That will really get her mind going.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:31 PM
1

In that case, no reply. The other options appear butthurt.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:27 PM
1

No. No to all of this. Don’t give her any attention, don’t call her asking what she wants (that’s what she wants btw). If you want to shoot a shot, tell her to come over for drinks. That’s it, not another word unless it’s directions to your place. She either complies or you never talk to her again.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:21 PM
6

If you are wrong, you are wrong. I won’t usually apologize but I often say “Fuck, you’re right. Good job”. I feel like telling them “good job” swings it back in your favor. Like giving a dog a treat.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:14 PM
5

New phone who dis
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:07 PM
2

When they are already checked out, that’s when you can try some new shit and see how it’s received. Try some negs or whatever. Here’s a pro tip, practice your storytelling on them at this point. Try to draw them into a good story, even if it’s just a friendly interaction (if she isn’t interested). You get the win/win of practicing talking to hot girls, plus all the other girls are going to see you talking to hot girls (SMV boost).
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:05 PM
3

Confidence come from experience, I’m sure there is a solid post about it somewhere. As far as your wallet goes, live like you are still broke. I drove my same pos car until it basically fell apart, I stopped eating out and buy chicken on sale for 90% of what I eat, along with a cheap carb source like rice (Saved me about $500 per month). I carry 0 debt, paying of my credit card every month. And I rent a house and split the bills with a roommate. I could easily afford to pay for a brand new car, …
/r/askTRP16/12/20 08:35 AM
3

You aren’t ugly or they wouldn’t bother at all. You SMV must be lower (girls won’t consciously think of it like this) than the other guys. Focus on yourself, level up. How’s your fashion? Your physique? Your wallet? Your confidence? There is always work to be done.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 07:46 AM
55

They don’t just show up. You gotta put the effort in. Nobody wants a fat, poor, 35 year old. Use the rest of your 20s to get in better shape and get your money right. And approach a lot now, so you got this shit down by 30.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 07:36 AM
1

Disappear.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 01:42 PM
4

No girl on the planet wants a 6’3” fit dude with a degree. So you’re basically doing everything right... Stop being lazy, you know exactly what you need to do.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 01:34 PM
1

Yes bro. Get the stink of desperation off of you. There’s absolutely a limit to how big a girl can be for me. But I learned it’s a lot bigger than I thought. Some girls still look surprisingly good. If they have a cute face and don’t have rolls while standing then I’ll usually hit.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 01:30 PM
3

A shit test is different than an insult...
/r/askTRP13/12/20 01:20 PM
4

Goal after goal after goal until you are dead. Health goals, financial goals, hobby/entertainment goals. You said getting in shape changed nothing? In relation to what? Girls? Girls ain’t shit bro, just a wet hole to bust a nut in (on). Set goals for yourself, not for hoes.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 07:24 AM
5

Alpha is literally doing whatever tf YOU want to do, because YOU want to do it. Cuddling and kissing slowly isn’t beta unless you are doing it for her and not yourself. Personally after about 2 minutes of cuddling I’m over it and she can go, but that’s just me. If you find yourself doing something you don’t actually want to do, it’s beta.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 07:08 AM
6

Idk how old you are but if you’re over 27 please for the love of god find someone else. You ain’t got time to be playing. And if he’s in relationships then he probably doesn’t follow this sub.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 06:33 AM
5

It’s not a trap. Even if he says “without sex” everyone knows guys wanna fuck all the time. So he probably gonna try regardless. Honestly you should be more concerned if he didn’t try to. Just enjoy your time with this dude while you look for someone else. No need to try to make it something it’s not.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 06:21 AM
5

That’s what he’s gotta do. If he liked you way more than you liked him. Then you wouldn’t like him at all. That’s kinda the basics of the intersexual dynamics of this sub. He’s doing exactly what he has to do to keep you interested in him. And if you want more than that then find a blue pilled guy. Get married, get bored, and cheat on him with this red pill dude.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 06:12 AM
1

I like to think of it as enjoying your company without getting attached
/r/askTRP13/12/20 06:02 AM
15

If he follows this sub and is doing it correctly. You can’t. Find someone else.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 11:30 PM
2

Every response is viable as long as you genuinely look like you don’t give a fuck. You can ignore her, you can tell her to go flirt with him, you can tell her he’s out of her league. Ignoring is probably the best option if it actually is bothering you.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 07:43 AM
13

Please don’t do this. It increases the chances of the condom slipping off significantly.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 07:37 AM
2

Take out the part with girls and add in a hobby. If you don’t currently have a hobby; then your hobby, is trying out hobbies until you find one. Stay healthy, make money, do things you like. The girls will come and go.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 01:15 AM
1

Google “Steamroller PUA” From a LA PUA community like 10 years ago, went out sarging with him once. Cool dude.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 11:12 PM
10

Don’t oneitis a girl that’s leaving bro. Or any girl for that matter.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 09:51 PM
2

They only give you the attitude you allow them to give you.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 10:55 PM
1

I’m cool with twice a day
/r/askTRP05/12/20 08:57 AM
2

Shave your head, go to the gym and get jacked. Nobody will make comments about your hair anymore. All I hear these days is “I don’t normally date bald guys” as she rubs my head (after being fucked). And my response is usually, “You probably shouldn’t start now”. Other dudes usually comment on my physique and how they want to look like me. If they do comment about my head it’s usually asking “how often do you shave your head”? I honestly think being bald is just a tie breaker. All things being eq…
/r/askTRP04/12/20 12:03 AM
11

I had oneitis this one time. I went to a doctors appointment with her. The doctor asked her how many times she had been pregnant. She said 9 times... she only had 2 kids. That killed my oneitis pretty quickly. I don’t know why. I’m sure this isn’t helpful to you.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 03:01 PM
3

Yeah, that’s a plate at best.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 06:10 AM
1

I think it depends on the flags. If it’s emotional issues then definitely. She gonna do what feels right to her in the moment; then try to justify it to herself later.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 06:00 AM
4

Most of the time, but not always. If Brad Pitt shows up to fuck your girl, she probably gonna do it.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 05:56 AM
1

Make her do some nasty shit. Like licking your ass. Then leave her.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 08:22 AM
7

Literally tell them... it’s not complicated. “Come suck this dick girl... I want to see you swallow every drop” Edit: Get her hot and bothered first, then tell her.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 02:31 AM
8

Just next her bro. It’s kinda hard when you are inexperienced, but eventually you get the girls that are dtf and you realize how much time you were wasting.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 09:13 PM
1

Eggs and red meat cover a lot of the vitamins and minerals you need. You still wanna get in some veggies for fiber find something you can eat with dressing like spinach or dip broccoli in ranch. Don’t skimp on fat at your age as it, along with cholesterol is needed for hormone production. If you are over weight eat at maintenance calories, if you are normal weight or below eat at a surplus of calories. You don’t wanna eat low calories as you should have a growth spurt for the next couple years. …
/r/askTRP24/11/20 09:07 PM
5

You could be dead tomorrow. Does any of this shit really matter? That’s what I tell myself.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 11:07 PM
7

Just move on bro. Not worth it. If she isn’t she will be.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 10:18 PM
1

You are overthinking it. Don’t do that. Just enjoy it and wear a condom.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 06:57 AM
7

“Where did you get that (insert random background item)”? She wants a validation boost. Don’t give it.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 04:04 PM
14

Keep every text. Take pictures of her smiling or posing with the fresh bruises (you can tell the age of a bruise by looking at the color, this could save you later). I was with a chick like this, we would do full on rape fantasy stuff. I have pictures, video, and texts. I still didn’t feel safe
/r/askTRP18/11/20 10:45 PM
29

Can you really trust anything that’s a slave to it’s emotions?
/r/askTRP18/11/20 10:40 PM
3

You gotta get it going man. Not doing it is making her more uncomfortable. She knows what you want and she knows why she’s there. Some days you gotta pry the girl off of you, other days you gotta be clever af. “Come here I want to show you something... Give me your hand... Mmhmm you have weird thumbs” What’s important is the first part, then I just improvise after that. Once you get started it will snowball pretty easily. If she doesn’t hesitate or seem creeped out, then keep going. 2 steps forw…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 10:26 PM
1

Starbucks and Chipotle at least where I live
/r/askTRP18/11/20 05:05 AM
13

This can’t be serious
/r/askTRP16/11/20 03:14 PM
8

This some pussy shit. Men take the lead bro, that’s how it is.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 10:24 AM
2

Fucking her will increase future opportunities, not screw them up (unless you are really bad or something). I’ve had girls I’ve never even met slide in my DM’s, because I fucked their friend and she told them about it.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 10:22 AM
4

Shit tests are to make sure you are who you appear to be. If you are absolutely solid in your frame, who you are, and what you believe; then there is no issue. You will pass without even thinking about it. It takes time to develop this, so being able to spot and pass shit tests is just for the mean time.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 09:57 AM
6

Red pill is (partially) about the understanding of women’s nature. It’s not game. Game however you want, just understand the basics of red pill and that AWALT so you don’t get screwed over. Game and red pill are 2 completely different concepts. It’s like math and science, they are not the same but they help each other in some aspects.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 09:49 AM
2

The right thing would have been to ignore her from the beginning. Instead, childish back and forth ensues.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 09:41 AM
1

You pick the place, you pick the time. Just because she picks the day doesn’t make it her frame.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 10:10 PM
1

I don’t really see it as disrespect. You could probably increase your lay count by 20-30% just by offering a second chance. Some girls have comfort issues. That said I don’t really communicate other than logistics. Out for drinks the first date, pull to my house after. Straight to my house for the second date. If nothing then I move on.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 09:20 PM
6

That’s not really 2 flakes. That’s one flake and one short notice that she couldn’t accept. If she’s offering a reschedule you can definitely fuck her. But she probably banging another dude too. 2 flakes and she’s out.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 08:08 AM
1

I’d say it depends on how good looking you are. For most it’s probably a bad idea.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 08:03 AM
6

Being attractive is not the same as being high value. If you are very attractive (to them) and equal or even low value, you have a very high chance at a ONS. Because you have no value it’s easy to fuck and forget. You can also have the opposite problem. You can be so high value that they don’t want to seem like easy sluts. The exception would be if your value is status based. I’d give at least 2 tries before a next.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 07:59 AM
1

These girls ain’t shit bro. They just have a wet hole and fat deposits that we are biologically programmed to be attracted to. It’s really stupid when you think about it. But none of them are special.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 07:52 AM
1

Why does it matter? Wtf...
/r/askTRP15/11/20 07:46 AM
4

“Let’s grab drinks on Thursday”
/r/askTRP15/11/20 04:57 AM
5

Rough sex
/r/askTRP15/11/20 03:58 AM
2

Some want money, all want attention. Doesn’t matter who paid if she still getting what she wants.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 01:14 AM
12

Why are you even in the position to hear this bullshit...
/r/askTRP14/11/20 01:56 PM
1

She ain’t shit. Do what YOU want.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 01:46 PM
27

Sounds like she’s getting everything she wants. Why would she fuck you? If a girl came over every night and fucked you all night long, why would you ever take her to an expensive dinner? Men want sex, women want attention. Stop giving free attention. Pull back until she fucks, or move on.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 01:41 PM
2

You did great. Now move on and she will hit you up eventually. Especially if she sees you or hears about you with other girls. So work on new bitches until she comes back around. P.S. I wouldn’t fuck with her. She seems unstable.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 01:29 PM
5

It’s boring. It’s fine if that’s what ends up happening, but it sounds boring. I like to make things into a challenge. It’s more interesting to them. For example when she says “what you got in mind” I’d say something like, “it depends on how good you (blank)”. The blank can be almost anything. “It depends on how good you cook pasta” “It depends on how good you follow directions” “It depends on how good you look in your panties” Hell you could just says “it depends”. It’s just more interesting. I…
/r/askTRP14/11/20 01:18 PM
5

Girls specifically. Idk about people in general
/r/askTRP14/11/20 10:25 AM
9

TRT... Natural boosts are probably not enough if your T is legit low. If it’s middle of the road then yes. Lifting, hunting, and cold approaching all seem to increase Test levels. Basically just do manly shit.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 07:33 AM
1

Because another dude has her attention
/r/askTRP14/11/20 07:28 AM
2

It definitely happens. There’s a whole technique to it.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 06:32 AM
2

Your follow up questions are ruining it. It’s like you are trying to disguise being blunt with a friendly unattractive follow up question.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 10:00 PM
11

Some don’t like it, some find it a huge turn on if you hold eye contact. I wouldn’t worry about it.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 11:22 AM
3

I say things in a way that people aren’t sure if I’m serious or joking. But most girls will laugh, especially the better looking ones. Another introvert tip? Don’t try to not be an introvert. Don’t laugh at everything. Just be totally cool with chillin. Say shit you think is funny, call her on some shit you don’t agree with. Otherwise let her talk. Honestly I think red pill is perfect for introverts, most dudes talk too much and screw themselves. So easy to hold frame when you chillin. You don’t…
/r/askTRP10/11/20 11:02 AM
21

No it’s best to be coy and let her figure that shit out herself. He’s already fucking her, so why ruin that to be more attractive...
/r/askTRP10/11/20 10:41 AM
5

I wanted to contribute to the post but it’s definitely been awhile. Or I’m just so used to the “agree and amplify” that I don’t even notice anymore. Either way I ain’t got shit for ya.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 09:45 AM
4

Some are clean
/r/askTRP10/11/20 09:43 AM
13

Legit can’t even remember the last time I was insulted.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 09:40 AM
2

I’m an introvert, here is my tip. Just say random high value shit whenever she stops talking. Did you even shower today? What would you cook for me if I came over? Almost time to get those eyebrows done. Ever think about getting plastic surgery? What would you get done? That’s it? Have you ever tried that charcoal soap for your pimples? I could go on for days.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 09:34 AM
8

This. They are bored and want free attention. Covid ain’t stopping my girls. Next faster until you find some troopers.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 09:22 AM
1

Sounds like you are her dancing monkey, that’s only around for her entertainment. And you suck at it. Time to ghost for a while. Let her hit you up. You respond with logistics. If she say no, next her.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 09:19 AM
66

Stop trying to get ahold of her. She will either come back around or not. But chasing her ain’t gonna help. If you catch her by chasing, she will have way too much power in the relationship and you won’t enjoy it anymore. If you fucked her well enough she will be back after she fucks some other dudes. And even though you already know it, yes you totally fucked up by telling her that.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 09:14 AM
43

That’s fine that you didn’t argue, but you still wanna try to bring things into a “everything is cool” vibe before rolling over. I can almost guarantee that while she is yelling or trying to argue; I would have interrupted her and said something along the lines of, “let me get back in that pussy girl”. Like I don’t even know wtf is going on. And if it’s still a “no” I would probably say something like, “alright baby” and a kiss on the cheek. Then 0 attention after that. 0 attention in the mornin…
/r/askTRP10/11/20 09:04 AM
1

I try to clean up a bit. My house would be a disaster if it weren’t for these hoes coming over all the time...
/r/askTRP10/11/20 08:48 AM
2

You texted too much at once bro. And she just wants to fuck again. So that’s the part (of your long ass text) she chose to respond to. It’s really that simple. Wait awhile and text for logistics.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 08:45 AM
3

Nope, I already despise these girls who cater to simps. It’s so annoying to me. I wouldn’t even date one. I’d fuck her though.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 08:38 AM
121

1- You already know. Don’t ask if she’s okay, let her tell you. Just act like you ain’t see, hear, or smell anything (unless it’s really concerning like an STD). She’s probably embarrassed about something. 2- Don’t argue with women; I imagine it as a failed shit test every time I find myself about to argue. 3- It’s hard, but you never want to seem mad or upset when you don’t get the pussy (or in this case don’t get to finish). It gives their pussy power it doesn’t deserve. You gotta just play it…
/r/askTRP10/11/20 08:33 AM
9

I wouldn’t even trip bro. Who cares what they think. Anyone else who saw would think those people were assholes anyway. I’ve had a gun pulled on my for some dumb shit similar to this. Not even worth it.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 05:09 AM
8

Definitely not a question, but it’s something everyone should remember when interacting with them. Makes cold approach easier. “She a hoe, I can probably get her number”. Fuck em like they a hoe and they will stick around longer. None of that making love bs. Makes it easier to not get attached. It’s just your turn. Relives the guilt of dating/fucking multiple girls. Cuz she most likely doing it too or is at least looking. I’m sure there’s more. I don’t even know why I replied to this...
/r/askTRP05/11/20 11:18 PM
8

Don’t fall into the availability trap. Girls admire a guy that would like to see them but he doesn’t have time.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 12:21 AM
1

I forgot how much I like AMS. I need to watch his new shit.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 06:58 AM
14

The real benefit is stopping porn.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 05:05 AM
1

Bro it’s not that serious. Some people like to play messaging games. But if I have free time to shoot a couple texts I’ll shoot a couple texts, chances are it’ll be a few hours before I’ll have time again. But if you ain’t really got shit going on and you can text all day long; then definitely play the messaging games.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 12:08 AM
1

Scars on the arms and legs is an easy way to spot the hardcore ones. Also a shitload of tattoos is often (but not always) another sign. Because the pain from the tattoo has a similar emotional release effect to that of cutting. Heavy drinking or drug use (either at once or less heavy but more frequently). Drastic changes in their appearance. Overly dramatic about everything (laughs hard, cries hard, screams). Often initially come off as really cool and down to earth. Not sure where the “hack you…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 09:21 AM
1

It’s fine bro
/r/askTRP02/11/20 09:03 AM
1

Maybe her dude is a pastor.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:34 AM
4

Might sound obvious. But get other options. I wouldn’t completely drop the LDR yet but I would start dating. That way you have a pseudo option while interacting with other girls. Then drop her when you’ve got real options.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 10:36 AM
3

Not so much obvious. More like its an option, maybe it will maybe it won’t. No big deal, low pressure. Definitely escalate but slowly, pull back a little, then escalate again. Gotta try to sell the “it just happened” thing.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 10:23 AM
1

It works really well. This is how girls compete. Guys do sports, girls try to get dudes that other girls want.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 10:18 AM
6

I’m guessing it got too hot and heavy in the parking place and now she has built this up too much in her head. Insisting on sex the next day is also putting a lot of pressure on herself. Try be way more chill, pull back, have some fun. Do something that’s not about sex at all; but that’s in a place where sex can “just happen” magically with no pressure.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 10:12 AM
3

The problem is that she has low interest in you and you’re pretending to have low interest in her. It bothers you because you’re faking it. She’s not. Her attraction for you has to be high before your low interest will be effective. Ghost her for weeks, let her see you out with some other girls, or fuck her so good she starts walking like she’s drunk. Give her a reason to step her game up. If you’re both not interested why would she even try? And she most likely been talking to other dudes. I’d …
/r/askTRP01/11/20 09:52 AM
2

Your point about being an 8 with a 6 is spot on. I leveled up to about an 8 last year and it’s the first time I’ve noticed girls acting like I’m out of their league. It’s a strange dynamic that took me a minute to get used to.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 09:11 AM
2

Well you want to be/look interested or the girl will move on. You need to approach, gain attraction, then escalate. These are things you have to do. Once the girls attraction for you goes up your interest level should be going down at the same rate. This is how you get a girl to chase you. I think maybe you’re referring to the idgaf attitude. Or outcome independence. This is more the attitude you should have when you approach or whatever. You just have the confidence or aura about yourself that …
/r/askTRP01/11/20 09:00 AM
5

I’ve only had one experience like this. But this is what worked for me. Me: “We going to a new spot tonight, put on some makeup and that dress I like”. Her: “You said you like how I look without makeup”. Me: “I like how you look without clothes too; but that doesn’t mean you can’t look sexy with clothes on”. Her: “Okay! :D” Take from that what you will.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 07:37 AM
1

Fuuuuck I was thinking the same.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 05:53 AM
3

Damn bro, those are my type of numbers too. 5’2” 140lbs is a bad bitch if she has the proportions right. Anyway, if you can fuck hotter girls then go for it. I prefer to plate the less hot ones though, less of a headache and they stick around a little longer. But that’s just me.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 05:47 AM
13

Everyone’s scale is different. A 4 to me is the ugliest girl I’d sleep with after drinking. A 5 is the ugliest girl I’d sleep with sober. And a 6 is your average girl. And 7s are what I like to fuck with. Weight doesn’t have too much of impact until we talking 7+. If she’s a little chunky but otherwise clean, cute face, smells good, she’s probably a 6 in my book.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 05:09 AM
0

Cool you can just sit their and run your mouth while I take your girl lmfao
/r/askTRP31/10/20 10:22 PM
3

You fucked up, a lot. But it’s all good brother. Learn from this one and the next one will go much better. There’s probably a few things you didn’t mention that were mistakes. Think back on it. Asking her if she tired is definitely a no no. You pretty much start supplicating to her after that. Think about it like this; she knows exactly what you want. She knows you wanna fuck, and she came into your bedroom. So now ask yourself this, did anything you said line up with your intentions?
/r/askTRP31/10/20 08:37 PM
5

You should have more going on in your life so little bullshit like this doesn’t bother you. If it’s something you want to do then her enthusiasm doesn’t matter. Don’t let these girls fuck with your emotions so easily. It’s really not a big deal.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 08:25 PM
0

There is a difference between being insecure and letting some creep touch your girl. The latter makes you look like a total bitch. Not only is the girl uncomfortable but they are also DISRESPECTING YOU. People take this mate guarding bullshit too far. Fuck the ltr, it can be a first date, I’m not going to let anyone disrespect ME like that.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 06:41 PM
3

Depends on where you are. Some states/counties have free mental health programs. There are also reasonably priced online options. $40-$50 for an hour
/r/askTRP31/10/20 02:03 PM
1

The position itself is submissive. Same as a girl on top. It’s not the end all be all. There are different degrees of submission. But if it’s something you like to do and you are operating in your frame it doesn’t really matter. Don’t dig too deep into it being a submissive position, it doesn’t mean you’re a little bitch or anything.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 01:38 PM
2

Agree 100%
/r/askTRP31/10/20 01:28 PM
2

Fair enough. I was imagining myself with my homies and there is no way in hell they would be doing it on purpose. So yeah the second part is to break the tension. If this dude is full on creepin, then 100% let them know you are serious.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 01:24 PM
2

Don’t text her that
/r/askTRP31/10/20 01:09 PM
6

Talk to a therapist or mental health professional.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 01:07 PM
-3

Say something, always. “Bro, if you don’t take your hand off my girl I’m gonna break it. And if she’s enjoying it, I’m gonna break the other hand too”.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 01:06 PM
1

Just depends on the vibe I get really. I’ll give you a couple rl examples though. These two very good looking black girls (I’m white fyi) are leaving a store as I was walking in. One of them gave me the most obvious “fuck me” eyes I’ve ever seen. So I put my hand out signaling her to stop; smile and say, “Woah, you gotta give me your number”. She knew exactly what I was talking about and gladly gave me her number. At the grocery store there was a blond girl that gave me a much more subtle look, …
/r/askTRP31/10/20 08:30 AM
6

Yes. Girls with high interest will do this. Straight stalker status in some cases. Use it to your advantage.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 07:48 AM
2

It’s submissive for sure but I would add that a lot of kinks are. And some dudes (myself included) are into it. Just like some dudes are into feet or fat chicks. And what is 100% NOT ALPHA is avoiding something you want to do. So do what you want.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 07:18 AM
3

Direct him straight to the side bar.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 07:12 AM
4

If you are getting more shit tests it’s probably because you are failing shit tests.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 07:10 AM
1

Every day.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 06:29 AM
6

No. Build your own shit.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 05:29 AM
5

Well they need to know you are attracted to them or they won’t even bother. They will usually fuck, but the amount of clothes they take off varies with how comfortable they are. Interesting question
/r/askTRP31/10/20 04:35 AM
0

Here are some of my favorites “You look cute with my cum on your face”. “I like the way you lick my ass”. “There’s something about the way your mascara runs down you face, that drives me wild”.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 03:55 AM
2

I’d say age is negligible unless it’s affecting your looks negatively
/r/askTRP31/10/20 02:43 AM
6

The one the the most money, status, good looks, game, confidence, or potential
/r/askTRP31/10/20 01:45 AM
1

It can still give you dick pimples. It’s very unlikely though.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 10:24 PM
59

As long as you didn’t have any little cuts on your dick, and she didn’t have an active break out. You are gonna be fine. And the good thing about HSV 1 is that it appears on the outside on the lips, so you would see it. Unless she had a very suspicious mustache.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 11:36 AM
4

These girls are pretty annoying to deal with. You can get her to open up more, but it takes a lot of time and is NOT worth the effort. If I could go back in time, I’d pass on my version of this.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 11:33 AM
2

Increasing your SMV would be ideal. But chances are she’s getting used-up and tossed out. So she tryina swing backwards. If you really wanna rub it in, get your SMV up as high as you can.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 10:35 AM
3

Lifting is 100% the thing to do if you aren’t already. It’s really quite simple. The fitness industry has made it complicated so they can sell stuff. I like to do 1 machine, 1 dumbbell, and 1 barbell exercise per body part. Just pick the ones you like the most to start. Then advance from there. Most recommended starting strength 5x5, but I suggest doing what you like until you get into the habit of showing up.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 06:09 AM
6

The phases are different for everyone. The sooner you channel this energy into something else the faster the anger will dissipate. Buuuuut I do do have some good news. If you can manage to completely ignore her and move on, you will absolutely get your chance to shoot her down. 100% of the girls I’ve been with for more than a few months have tried to come back eventually. And that’s when you get your chance to leave them on read. Don’t tell them to fuck off because they will actually enjoy heari…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 05:23 AM
2

Easy... Start by having her suck your dick, really shove it in there after a couple minutes and see how she takes it. Make sure to tell her to lick and spit on your balls (your ass too if she’s a real soldier) while she still jerking your dick. Get her in missionary, start off kinda slow (you need to pace yourself with this stuff) put a couple fingers in her mouth (especially the ones that may have been in her pussy) for a bit. As you ramp up the speed you can start to “*choke” her. At some poin…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 05:08 AM
26

If she’s treating you like that, she almost certainly is.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 04:13 AM
13

You should still be talking to other girls just like your girl is talking to other dudes. The best way to keep a girl, is to be on your way out; all the time. Hard to branch swing when the branch she got is fittina break.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 03:26 AM
8

This is why you never let women know when something she does bothers you. Comes naturally when you’ve got plates or at least a side chick. But you gotta play it off like an A-list actor if you don’t have options. Chances are she will sniff it out and use it against you.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 03:00 AM
1

Definitely #1 and #3 but they are more regulars than guilty pleasures. I find the 8s and up take too much effort to keep more than 1 in rotation. And I’m always trying to keep my frame intact, it’s a weak spot in my game rn.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 07:17 PM
1

If they at your place, it’s your game to lose. They know why they there. They know what you want. And if you don’t escalate they will think you’re a pussy.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 07:17 AM
2

Platonically? Something like: I like talking to you, but you should know that I get anxiety sometimes; and it makes it hard to talk to people.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 03:27 AM
2

We humans have the ability to transcend our basic animalistic purpose of mating. You’re purpose should be whatever tf you want it to be. And once you find it, it gets hard to squeeze in the ladies.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 03:15 AM
1

I’d rather girls think I’m OCD or socially awkward than a straight creep. But that’s just me.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 03:11 AM
1

Could be a lot of things. Covid got a lot of people stressed out and a lot of people getting back in touch with their ex’s. Social media is handing out validation like candy. You probably aren’t doing anything wrong if you’ve had success before. I’m a big fan of plating easier girls; for the real “other options” swagger. Plate a couple 6’s and I bet the 8’s will come easier.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 03:02 AM
1

If you don’t care, then tell them and see how it goes. Sometimes you gotta figure shit out yourself.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 02:52 AM
3

Different plates for different dates. Some are only for sex, others I enjoy doing things with.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 10:32 AM
1

Some of these girls have a skewed sense of their SMV because of IG. They post the best picture out of thousands, get a few likes, then think they are the shit.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 03:22 AM
12

I’d pass bro. Doesn’t sound like it’s gonna lead to smashing.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 02:50 AM
1

She’s actually being quite honest about it. Girls live in their feels in any particular moment. You are already this clingy after a kiss? She’s definitely not gonna wanna fuck. Your only good option is to ghost her. Focus on you, and maybe she will hit you up some day.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 01:19 PM
2

She wants attention and is getting it. You want what? And are you getting it? You should stop for sure. You’re re-enforcing bad habits. Never give free attention and barely give it otherwise.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 01:09 PM
0

Where your expectations must be.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 01:01 PM
2

You basically have to be a master of frame. Never let shit slip. Keep her in a submissive state at all times. Don’t argue. Be sure of what you say, you never want to have to apologize. Some dudes are built for this and it’s easy, I think it’s a pain in the ass. But there is one exception. If you and the girl are into BDSM. Kitten just wants to make Daddy happy. For me this is a super easy frame to keep as she doesn’t really push back at all. Also sex will take a huge chunk of time and it’s not f…
/r/askTRP18/10/20 12:54 PM
0

It’s really all about confidence. The confidence to approach, the confidence to check her bull shit, and the confidence to leave. Looks only matter because they boost your confidence. There is a limit of course. But 90% of the dudes here could have a rotation of 7’s easily with the right attitude.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 12:41 PM
1

They ain’t even gotta fuck up. Just me looking bored will lite a fire under their ass. Girls will start doing some nasty shit if you’re into it.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 12:26 PM
5

Other dudes are wayyy more respectful. It’s kinda weird sometimes. And a lot of guys will look up to you just because you’re in shape. Be ready for a lot of male attention. With girls it’s kind of strange. It’s hard to explain and maybe one of the other guys can explain it better than I can. But it’s like I suddenly fit in now. Like it’s totally cool if I talk to them. Where as before it was like I started at “thirsty creep” and had to prove otherwise.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 09:59 AM
1

This is literally every girl. She only a “hoe” because she told you about it. I have a decent lay count and I automatically assume any girl over 25 has me beat.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:53 AM
1

Maybe I’m reading this wrong. But in my experience girls are generally down for being a side chick. (Edit): And it’s more about the attitude that having options brings than the options themselves.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:39 AM
4

What exactly is the downside to banging one of them? Definitely a missed opportunity for a bad reputation.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:36 AM
1

Are you actually fucking the “2 plates” you have? This sounds like some thirsty shit.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:22 AM
0

Don’t be goofy and do things for your own amusement. I’m not an extrovert by any means. And I definitely play up the strong silent type roll. No need to make the whole group laugh either. For example: If I see someone who looks ridiculous I’ll pull one friend to the side, and say some funny ass shit about the person. That friend will bust up laughing while I’m just chillin and everyone is wondering what I said that was so funny. Or that friend will tell everyone what I said in a more extroverted…
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:02 AM
7

Been shaving my head since I was 16 (started receding young, now 32). Didn’t even know bald dudes had issues with girls until I came to this sub. Honestly thought it was helping me. I’ve seen smoking hot 10’s with big fat lesbian women. Girls honestly don’t give af about how you look physically. As long as you look like you put in some kind of effort in your appearance and you don’t smell like shit. I don’t know what kinda woman y’all trying pull around here but come on guys.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 07:47 AM
1

Nothing wrong with going out. But generally after you already fucked once, you can go ahead and start having them come straight to your place. It just makes everything easier if your goal is to smash again.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 07:20 AM
15

I used to think this way too a few years ago. Until one day I was out with my cousin (a girl) and her girlfriends. I wasn’t involved with any of them but I started to notice what seemed like every fifth or sixth girl in the bar would be looking at me. Social proof from the ladies I was with I’m guessing. Anyway, this look was new to me at the time; but I got it so much that night that I notice it all the time now. And I’ll almost always go and chat up a girl that looks at me like this. It has gi…
/r/askTRP18/10/20 05:10 AM
5

Same as any other girl. Get her so hot and bothered that she can’t take it anymore. Escalate then pull back, 2 steps forward 1 step back. But you gotta pull back before she gets uncomfortable. There’s a finesse to it. Too much and she gets uncomfortable but stopping just before that point leaves her wanting more. That’s my 2¢ about it anyway.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 04:49 AM
3

Y’all already fucked and she feeling some type of way. Should’ve had her come to your place for drinks.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 03:26 AM
1

Literally anything. Ignore them if you have to. Needy and available is the last thing you want to be. I’ll respond for about 15min then, no matter how’s it’s going, I’m gone for at least a couple hours.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 02:01 PM
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