CMV: When most straight women say they like the man's ''personality'' or they have ''chemistry'', I feel like plenty of times it's actually just ''masculinity'' but it's too subconscious for them to realize it.

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gypsyyymoonss · 2020-09-29T10:48:28+00:00

I like shy/introverted feminine nice tall guys. Masculine man are unattractive.

amwfhunter · 2020-09-29T11:16:51+00:00

I've been saying this for years and practice it. l'll be the first to admit, based on definitions I'm what some might consider toxic masculine. Even though I think that term is bs.

Yet, I have had 0 problems attracting attractive women. Think quintessential club going hot girl or "Instagram model" looking girls but also girls next door too.

I really do believe that looks and how one conducts themselves have a lot to do with it. Ngl, I was always very sure of myself, if anything i had to tone down my own arrogance because it pisses people off and just isn't always the best way to win over people. But with relative success in my life etc, it just added to my confidence and I think people can see that. I get away with saying some stupid ass stuff. Sometimes I look back and think, man I was such a douche. Or how the hell I pull that off? For example one time, I was at my good friend's house party. He introduced me to a group of girls. After a while, I wanted to move to another room. So I was like "hey come bitches to the girls." His face was absolutely floored in utter shock. They followed and one was like "wait did you just call us bitches?" To which I responded "yeah I thought, you are bad bitches, am I wrong?" "Good point." And my friend was like wtf....how the hell ..

That night I ended up sleeping with one of the girls.

Come to think of it, over the course of my life, i said a lot of controversial things that people just forgave or didn't care. The halo effect is real.

I've done some questionable things like date a few girls at once and told them I had others yet the women didn't mind competing. "Out of all my girls, you're my favorite." Is a phrase I use a lot for a girl I really like. They eat it up and love it.

So anecdotally I dont know what to think about this anymore. And it isnt even like these women are trash women or low quality women. I have had a pool of diverse women in my life. From wealthy socialites to doctors to religious Muslim girls (im not even Muslim, I'm an Asian American guy).

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