Quick tips to avoid investing in a plate?

benhurensohn · 2021-01-29T19:55:28+00:00

My thought is, I can do whatever I want with a plate as long I maintain that abundance within myself.

That's correct. There isn't a problem as long as you don't lead her on and you don't lose abundance mindset.

Secret_Twitch · 2021-01-29T20:42:35+00:00

Some girls can handle the extras you are referring to, others start to get the "boyfriend" vibe. Every side piece is different. I have one right now that I will take to dinner every few weeks or so, or sit and watch a movie with her. She might have the feelz^TM for me but she plays it off really well. She never wants to "talk" or try to define our relationship. Sometimes I just go over and smash that pussy and leave right after like the building is on fire. Other times we are more affectionate. I'm rambling. The answer is it depends on the girl.

Subutai_Baghatur · 2021-01-29T22:28:33+00:00

I like to go out for a drink and even watch a movie with a plate. In your opinion is that too much investment risk?

Fundamentally, if you want to keep plates as plates for as long as possible, it doesn’t matter what you like: it all comes down to whether she feels she has earned the investment of which you have given her.

Noodlesoupe2 · 2021-01-30T08:08:40+00:00

Idk just don’t go to far in the girlfriend direction- either the plate breaks and she starts demanding commitment or you get oneitis. No deep talks, no romance. You can smoke or watch tv with them sure after all they’re still human but make sure they’re firmly in the “acquaintance that you fuck” zone. That being said- if you really like the girl and she shows green flags you can progress to a fwb and maybe a LTR. Don’t be afraid to have fun with girls.

DoubleConversation4 · 2021-01-29T19:54:54+00:00

Cut the texting. Don't cuddle after sex. Don't buy her gifts. Don't spend non-sexual time. Don't be affectionate.

I like to go out for a drink and even watch a movie with a plate. In your opinion is that too much investment risk?

Then you should have multiple plates, so even if you invest, the amount of investment on a single girl will never be high enough to get you attached.

Title	Quick tips to avoid investing in a plate?
Author	Spirited-Foot
Upvotes	2
Comments	12
Date	January 29, 2021 7:44 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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