Call me out if this is bullshit and I have issues please. I’ve noticed this a lot in myself. The guys who have a good career, their own place, seem to have the same morals and goals as me, tend to also dress like a dad with no style, maybe have a dad bod, or just otherwise not super attractive to me. They do tend to be older than me (by only a few years), but I can’t seem to find guys that are “my type” that also have their shit together and closer to my age. I have more of an edgey look, not like super alt or anything, no piercings, but I do have tattoos and like to dress like a mid-20 year old, with some cultural flavors or the occasional ripped jeans. I like guys who have cool hobbies, have good style (according to my style), and are more spiritual, or are generally a little “different”, introspective, creative, and spontaneous. I wouldn’t go as far as to say “woke” guys (at all) because I see them as being simply narcissistic, but guys I feel like I can relate to more, who are genuine and unique. I feel like all of the “stable” guys are the exact same, no style, loves football, conventionally religious, and that’s just not what I’m into. Am I broken or am I not the only one who isn’t attracted to this type?