So I’ve been speaking to this girl for a bit and due to circumstances we haven’t been able to meet yet. Basically I met her on tinder as I went to stay at my mums for a bit which is in a whole different part of the country. As I came down she basically went up to live with her dad for a while. She said she can meet when she comes back down later this month however I don’t think this is gonna happen anymore.

Basically you can kind of tell this girl is a proper attention seeker. She has suggestive pics on her insta, an only fans in her bio and has sent me the odd picture of her wearing like something you’d buy from Ann Summers. Anyway, I didn’t care about all this because I wasn’t planning on getting into anything serious with her (I’m going to uni in September) . However she met this friend who is a male the other day and I called her out on it and said like I’m not going to pursue anything with somebody who meets male friends. Not only because I have self respect but also, even it’s just a hook up. I don’t want to sleep with a girl who does that? It feels dirty and I don’t care if they just sit there and play Pokemon cards. I tried to keep frame and just said ‘it’s not for me’ without trying to get too emotional about it.

Since I’ve been chilling in this part of the country (about a month) I’ve already met and slept with this other girl who was a complete contrast. No only fans, no sexual undertones on pictures and wasn’t overtly suggesting in messages. I thought if I can get with feminine girls like the latter I don’t need to get with girls like the former.

Anyway, was I wrong In doing any of this? Is it right to call this out and put your foot down or does it come across as jealous and controlling? I honestly don’t care if she doesn’t speak to me again. It kind of disgusts me when a girl has male friends who she goes and sees.