So, I've been seeing this girl for about 5 months now. I'd like to believe I've maintained my frame quite well and has never given her any reason to see me not as the leader in the relationship. She normally is really accepting of my role as the leader and acts very feminine and submissive around me. I am genuinely happy with how things are now tbh. I've communicated my boundaries pretty well, and no matter how much I get called stubborn, I never give in.

She has been telling me about how she feels really dejected when I tell her about my plans of never getting married, to have plates(subtly) and stuff. Since we are from a conservative country, she feels a bit insecure about how things would turn out with me.

More recently, she has been telling me about how she plans to not save much in her 20s, invest in herself, and try travelling solo as she always wanted. Me, being Red-pilled since the last one year, understands that this is a real red flag and immediately showed her the door.

I told her "Well, it's better just do it when you leave, shut the door".

I think she got it in the moment that I'm not gonna give up on my principles and even though she questioned me repeatedly about "WHY" and telling me that "I'll not cheat on you", I have been unmoved and told her that it's strictly against my principles.

I know we just had a talk but from her Pinterest saves and Insta stories, it's pretty clear that she still hasn't given up on the idea completely. Is it really a time to leave her, or should I wait for the time when it actually happens? I'm pretty sure I won't let her be with me if she were to travel solo in the future.