I am not saying that I am 100% Chad Thundadick, that's far from truth. I'm just not good at the 20% where I should show affection or praise towards a woman.

My overall concern is that as soon as I do any 20% shit the attraction will switch off and they'll feel placed on a pedestal, coming to me for validation.

In example this girl applied to college and got a job she wanted, and texted me "I know you dont care but I got this job"

I just said "Nice", then went back for a double text like "I'm impressed" but decided not to.