I feel the power I have when I'm fully self assured and have a no fucks given attitude. Issue is, it's sometimes based on my looks. So on days when I'm dehydrated and have a puffy face, or if I'm tired and have droopy face - I get fucked mentally for that day...

I've noticed it and am trying to fix that, would love some insight from you lot in how to have that unshakeable self assuredness based on something more concrete and proper.