How to fill the hole women would of filled?

Catcrumble · 2021-04-24T08:57:39+00:00

Get a dog.

SnooDrawings4726 · 2021-04-24T09:18:25+00:00

True happiness comes from within, if your telling yourself “I won’t be happy til I have this this and that” then your giving this, this and that control over your happiness, which is never good, because nothings ever permanent, so you’ll be even more devastated when whatever it is, is no longer there, or you’ll start worrying about losing it

Do you for now, a woman won’t make you happy, atleast truly, and after the butterflies it’s all down hill

Also get a dog

Fancy-Ad657 · 2021-04-24T09:37:17+00:00

Even with a woman, you will not be happy. A woman doesn't exist to bring happiness to your life. They are supposed to be an convenience. So you don't have to do house chores anymore. They are only useful if they take away some tasks of your hands. But they aren't meant to make you happy. Never have been and never will be. This is why the marriage rate is dropping ... no man wants a useless thing in the house.

Love is a fantasy made up by the shakespear era and disney movies. Love and feelings are such a destructive force that a lot of men/women commit suicide because of it.

Happiness comes from within. Be proud of the person you are, be proud in the things you do, that is where happiness comes from. MEN are all about respect, honor and discipline. To give you an example: we men feel good if we are on time at a meeting. Because this shows discipline, honor and respect. You honored the agreement that was set. If you are not on time, this means you lack discipline to organize your schedule correctly and you clearly don't respect anyone included in that meeting.

2021-04-24T11:47:47+00:00

Socrates: " By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you will be happy. If you get a bad one, you will be a philosopher ".

Those are your options, if you expect a woman to bring a world of happiness into your life, then try, but if you end up even in worse situation, you better be fucking ready, or else you're just gonna end up bouncing from one woman to the next trying to fill the hole.

doh-mah_doh-mah-mae · 2021-04-24T09:21:41+00:00

Take your daily red pill like Sandman says

FanofLemmy · 2021-04-24T12:19:01+00:00

Honestly, start working out. If you want something cheap, get a dip bar and a couple kettlebells. Loads of calisthenics and kettlebell routines on the internet. Youll start to feel amazing and take out a lot of the negativity in your life.

Eat better, ie whole foods and less junk or fast foods. Theyre riddled with estrogen and make you fat. Being fat makes you more effeminate.

Get your test levels checked by your doctor. Do a full blood panel and see where you're at.

Walk or bike ride as much as you can in the summer months, even spring and fall. We lack vitamin D during the colder winter months which can lead to depression or loneliness.

Read a book, even a page a day. You'll find something that interests you and it will spark new hobbies.

I did all those and bought a motorcycle. Now I have two motorcycles. I love them. I am 28 now, but when i was around your age and younger I felt the same way. I can promise you that things will get better and you won't feel lonely. It's all hormonal right now. In a few years you won't give two shits about it. My biggest concern in my life right now is how much bullshit I want to tolerate. Spoilet alert, it's 0%. Id rather tend to myself and avoid not just women, but people in general. It might sound lonely, but it's not. I love time alone or with a very close friend and/or my brother.

Ricksalab89 · 2021-04-24T13:56:04+00:00

Dont think like this man. There is no void that a woman fills for you. That is just something you imagine when you are young cause you want to get pussy, but dont know how. And cause it is shoved down our throats by movies and the media. Take a look at my content king, ill put a link below. Sub if you enjoy, hang in there

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OnlyATreeNothinToSee · 2021-04-24T09:06:59+00:00

Dude dogs or pets in general are awesome

gtowerthrowaway · 2021-04-24T17:53:23+00:00

even though she might help me feel better most days

There's your problem. She won't make you feel better most days.

Sure, there's the lust stage, where you're in the sack for days on end, and her every word for you is love and sweetness. But once that's over, she will make you miserable far more often than not.

AltoDomino79 · 2021-04-24T15:51:41+00:00

Have you tried squats? I'm partial to front box squats. I'm sure there's a squat out there for you!

Dorinus2 · 2021-04-24T18:14:11+00:00

I've read your post and couldn't stop thinking about myself a while ago.

In my opinion people who don't love themselves try to look for outside validation from external sources to make themselves feel better (to empty the void inside them if you know what i mean) what you need to realize is that love comes from within, and no matter how much sex or validation you'll get from women it won't make you happier in the long term (it might make you happier momentarily, but you'll always want more and chase this high.)

You need to get to the cause of the problem in order to get rid of it once and forall.

In my opinion you need to love and accept yourself. Not despite of your flaws,but because of them. And i know it's hard - and social media makes it harder (seeing people in love when you're lonely or seeing peopl on vacations when you're broke does tend to discourage you) but if you accept and love yourself you don't need outside validation, you won't chase these things because you don't need them. You need to be happy woth who you are. No matter what your financial\emotional\physical situation.

You need to stop judging yourself and be much sympathetic and accepting.

I was like you back then. I know how it feels.

Hope i helped. Have faith in yourself and stand up straight.

silly_birb_Banned · 2021-04-24T16:36:10+00:00

Instinct urge animals to fulfill their reproductive urges, human are no different.

As an ubermensch you should aim to achieve something great, something that makes ypur sould burn every morning when you wake up.

lazraven · 2021-04-25T00:26:13+00:00

Dog.

Invest in like minded friends.

Join online communities of like minded people.

Find out where sex for cash is LEGAL in or around or area. At least in a legal, financial transaction everyone knows the score.

If you definitely do not want children, get a vasectomy fast. If you do end up on the bad end of a FWB situation due needs being met, you won’t get stuck with an 18+ year financial burden. This also opens up a lot of options for you.

selfism_mike · 2021-04-25T01:40:24+00:00

You are longing for affection because the validation of another person means -for whatever reason - more to you than your own. You naturally do not desire to be touched or to receive affection from those you despise.

Loose respect for others, gain respect for yourself - both are valid tools of overcoming the illusion of needing someone else around.

gantz_au · 2021-04-25T04:23:07+00:00

The fact that you think there's a hole to be filled in the first place is the problem. Why do you think women belong in this part of your life? This is learned behaviour that you need to unlearn.

MGTOW_2685 · 2021-04-26T02:41:12+00:00

For me it´s all about cycles with women and work. I follow the algorithm:

If i have no female validation for longs periods of time, than i start to crave it and it´s hard to focus on the things that i should.

So i allow myself to interact with woman, and in weeks and months they will remind me of who they are by: going cold and distant sooner or later, progressively shit testing, nagging, gaslighting etc.

After i am reminded about female nature and already got my validation i either: Dump or get dumped.

This will make me get hurt is some way that will make me angry/unfullfilled with myself, this state of mind will give me extreme motivation and discipline to better myself and to earn more money.

I will work non stop to achieve any goals i planned, get to a better state than i was before and inevitably i will become complacent and the cycle repeats.

Advantages: Incremental Improvement, Higher Motivation

Disadvantages: Open to all kinds of women manipulation and a period of time that is wasted

TLDR: If you cannot live without the drug, get yourself some of it but only if you are able to improve after

Title	How to fill the hole women would of filled?
Author	Budget_Shift
Upvotes	13
Comments	20
Date	April 24, 2021 3:01 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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