I got into a "fight" with an LTR. I put it in quotes b/c it was just shit test after shit test which I handled well for the most part.

At the end when we cooled down some she started to talk about "show me that you love me" and Im wondering if thats a comfort test.

I didnt respond to that because I honestly wasn't expecting it. I feel like Ive been too "Alpha" to where she doesnt feel like I want her.

Basically should I tone it down and start showing more affection or is her asking me to be more affectionate a shit test to see if Ill go soft?