What do you tell women if they ask you if you ever had a girlfriend?

edwardhwhite · 2016-10-26T23:35:06+00:00

Say you were raised by wolves in the forest and that she's the first woman you have ever seen.

Shilalygawd · 2016-10-26T23:03:04+00:00

Date lower tier women while you get your groove and system together. I'm not saying date the ugliest of the ugly. Just give more 5s and 6s chances for a bit while you work on your dating game and gain some experience. Then move on to the more attractive and less desperate ones once you have your groove. Sacrifices, man. Gotta do it.

Poptart318 · 2016-10-27T00:34:45+00:00

I did, but my ex gf didn't like my other gf.

Mr_ghostslayer · 2016-10-27T00:44:39+00:00

In this respect it is never what it is, it is always what it seems that girls perceive. I've never been in a relationship more than 2 months but girls always think i've dated alot. I make it seem like i have. I always get the 'i see you have alot of girls in your life' line

Tips: have a social fb/insta profile. Go to the gym, get a stylish haircut, be confident, dont be too needy, imagine what a attractive man would be like and copy that in your mind. 'Fake it till you make it' dont be too try hard though there is a limit.

Its not your lack experience, but the way you emit yourself to these girls on dates. You feel like you dont have experience and it shows. Think less, you dont need much experience to be good in a relationship, you can learn on the way by reading here and general research.

When girls ask how many girls i've been with, i use this line 'i havent been with any today.' Or 'i'm saving my self till marriage.' Or 'I've been in a couple relationships but they werent the right person for me' - depending on the girl i always give a witty reply never a straight forward answer unless the girl is the serious non joke type than i use line 3.

When a girls ask how many girls you have slept with: you can say 'like counting leaves on a tree' If she pushes for a definite number, say a number between 8-15, even though you and i have been with more girls i find that if the number is too high girls always go anti-slut mode. Between 8-15 is the perfect number according to alot of statistics. The true test is how you fuck so the number is generally not a big issue.

Good luck broo.

AlfredApple · 2016-10-26T23:10:21+00:00

"I'm not really good with commitment". You're not lying and if you say it with a cheeky grin you will be inferring you have had many girls.

Last girl I went on a date with, she cut me off and said she only saw me as a friend nothing more. Funny thing is a year later shes still single and desperate!

This tells me many things. Your game sucks, you need to work on your appearance and your game sucks.

mid 20s ... late in the dating game

Hahahaha.

[deleted] · 2016-10-27T03:06:40+00:00

its something you should lie about. Im not saying its something flawed about you but there are things you need to white lie about. Just like a woman would lie about how she never cheated on her boyfriend or how many men she's been with. You should extend whatever your longest relationship was by a little bit and don't bring it up more than its asked about. I am in the same position. Ive had very brief relationships that I wouldn't consider anything major enough to classify a true relationship. Its not that big of a deal and it shouldn't be anything more to you than a little lie you need to tell. Women really won't care if your good and fun with them now. The only reason they will ask is because they like story and want to know your history and what kind of competition they are up against.

JamesSkepp · 2016-10-27T07:27:49+00:00

What do you say when a woman asks you if you have ever had a girlfriend or if you have dated much?

Flip the script:

"nah, i dont really like relationships, last gf gave me too much drama. super jelous over some trivial small talk with bartender or some other girl i know".

"what do you mean by dating? like an actual relationship or casual Tinder dating?"

She'll ask for both, you have a flip-script for "realtionship" and you have your experiences with ONS and casual sex.

In both cases, avoid details, paint a broad, ambiguous picture of how your m-f relations may look like. Steer the converstation towards "sex is fun, sex is pleasure, commitement is bad, commitement is lack of freedom", regardless of your actual opinion about this.

If the girl persist to talk about an actual LTR, chances are she's not here to fuck YOU, she's here to find a bf.

Shilalygawd · 2016-10-26T23:47:56+00:00

Why would you cut them off when they weren't cheating on you?

Shilalygawd · 2016-10-27T00:31:47+00:00

Shit, those are my favorite girls. Are you not very built? Lift. Get big. Work on your combatives. Threats will be just threats after that.

redpill33 · 2016-10-27T03:20:16+00:00

When they're asking logical questions like that, don't answer it logically. Agree and amplify to destroy those shit tests.

addwater · 2016-10-27T17:10:33+00:00

Agree / Disagree and amplify.

Nah, the furthest I've gone was holding hands with a girl but that was over a year ago.

Nah, I'm a virgin.

Nah, I was gay up until two weeks ago.

I've never dated, everything I know about women I learned from YouTube.

Don't entertain such questions with a genuine response.

If you pull these off with confidence and a bit of humour behind them you'll be fine.

bainbridge_island · 2016-10-27T01:32:14+00:00

A man that has never had an adult relationship with a woman, but yet has fucked one night stands and escorts is a huge red flag. It speaks of someone at the mercy of their sexual impulses and an inability (and lack of desire) to relate to women on a non-sexual level.

She is better of single and desperate than with a man who can't even relate to women outside of a sexual situation.

It maybe simply too late for you, and that is ok. Not everyone is meant to be married or in a LTR.

Edit-you are damaged goods.

Title	What do you tell women if they ask you if you ever had a girlfriend?
Author	newcomerredpill
Upvotes	16
Comments	23
Date	October 26, 2016 10:49 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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