I have the opportunity to be in a group of fairly hot, attractive athletic women in my med school cohort.

I can see the clicks forming, the alliances being made and sometimes I felt like I was not getting much attention from them. I am not going shit on my image, but I am average dude on the totem poll.

Regardless I have partied with them a few times and what I have seen is not shocking but it is rough.

In a womens world shit talking starts about 2.5 seconds after the girl leaves the conversation. If a girl is friendly with the guys, she is slut and whore, because she has a boyfriend back home. Whom ever a girl is talking to on a particular day, is the gossip on the street. Any flirting is reported and judged. I will often find girls alone, as the others have turned their backs on each other on a moments notice.

Coming back to me, I am a single dude in a sea of girls what they considering "relationships" and it did finally click to why, the women are being cold cunts towards to me, and its simply to eliminate any gossip/bashing that would be associated with me. Imagine living in a police state, where nothing is private, your other so called "friends" just pump you laundry out the rest of the world.

Again I carry myself fine, but judgments are made usually not in my favor, then again girls in the years (another cohort) ahead of me have no problem talking, flirting and acting like respectable humans around me.

Also note from the parties we recently had, if you are not with your girl at a party, she will flirt, fuck and have a hell of a time with out you.

Probably not any ground breaking news here, just wanted to share.