Are we supposed to treat only fans women like respectable members of society?

Hallowed_Crusader · 2021-02-15T05:48:35+00:00

I agree 100% I for one do not like to associate myself irl with anyone who either indulges in that or defends people who do it. Selling ass on the internet isn't bold or admirable. I don't want people that low in my life, ever.

Snake010 · 2021-02-15T11:03:04+00:00

If you present yourself as a whore, don't be mad when I view you as one

Estenar · 2021-02-15T10:39:02+00:00

I do not have the problem with women doing onlyfans. Like why should I even care, it is not my body, not my problem. But I do not like all the hype about it, spamming that shit everywhere, thinking it is "modeling" and "art" - which I would argue about that to some degree. Taking naked pictures because you have attractive and good looking vag is not art. Even more when you just take picture with you iphone and slap a filter on that.

I would do not really agree with the idea of degrading yourself. People do all kind of shitty stuff and it does not really make you someone less. What makes you valued is your connections, friends, hobbies, presentation etc. Making only fans maybe affects on of those categories which can be harmful, for your potential partner or future job. It all depends on your values, how you see it. More traditional person would say that not having kids is bad, more progressive person would say that you should do anything you want if it does not affect your own selfworth or body. Hard to really debate on that when at the end of the day there is no common ground or agreed "dogma" what is really good or bad.

But for me, personally? I would not want to be friend or in relationship with person who does this thing.

LongTimeOn · 2021-02-15T11:02:50+00:00

They can do what they like, but I won't respect them one bit and I suspect that the majority of people would feel the same. They all think they're going to get rich but in fact have destroyed much of their future employment opportunities. Companies are getting smart and are hiring specialist Social Media companies to do forensic searches for potential hires...Should they find an OF, well that's you done for. No company is going to put you in front of a client when that client might have seen you sticking a CUCUMBER UP YOUR GOOCH!! You had better learn that the internet is forever and once posted those video's and pictures can never be erased. Someone will have saved them, uploaded them and they'll be cached all over the world. I don't care if you did it when you were poor and 19 and now that you're 40 and a single mom, I'm still not going anywhere near you and certainly wouldn't hire you.

symbiote24 · 2021-02-15T12:40:01+00:00

Why should we respect people who can't respect themselves?

mrmensplights · 2021-02-15T05:11:38+00:00

I don’t see a problem with it. There’s obviously a need in the market and these women are fulfilling it. Exhibition, attention seeking, and the validation received from that are cornerstones of human female psychology. They fantasize about walking into a room and having all male attention come to them. Further, women will always conceptualize men in terms of utility. It’s baked in biologically.

To me that’s the real problem. I call it the big lie, and it’s one of the most painful aspects of growing up if you’re a boy. Society completely lies to itself about women. They take all positive aspects of the human condition and project that onto all women. There is no investigation or education about female physiology, female psychology, female aggression, etc. Compare that to boys. I knew what testosterone was and how it affected male behaviour in grade school. Countless stories and teaching of stereotypical male behaviours and how they must be tempered. Women are not taught any of that. Every feeling and behaviour is validated. Learning the truth is very painful. Women are not sugar and spice and everything nice, and they aren’t men. You were taught to want something that doesn’t exist. Disrespecting women for being on only fans is like disrespecting the rain for bring wet. All women play the same game, and if it isn’t only fans it just manifests a different way.

What I find more troubling is that the demand for only fans, twitch thots, instagram models, etc is so high. A lot of men are in a bad place simping for these girls. I think they internalize societies hatred of men. They are so lonely and unfulfilled they’ll pay money, send gifts, and beg for a few precious moments of “the girlfriend experience” - which is a male version of validation. It becomes a drug. It’s 2021’s version of falling in love with the girl at the strip bar, except at a larger scale and beamed into your bedroom.

Zero_the_Unicorn · 2021-02-15T14:04:40+00:00

There's always bad parts of society, like simps and thots, so good parts can exist. Shadow cant exist without light etc.

2021-02-15T15:15:48+00:00

It’s gross that they shove things up their butt

2021-02-15T12:09:12+00:00

It's a sign of abuse

illougiankides · 2021-02-15T13:55:02+00:00

I'm totally fine with it. Be it a woman or a man, if they can make money on onlyfans, it means there's a (overwhelmingly male) demand for it. I think they are more respectable than the idiots who pay for those shit.

Title	Are we supposed to treat only fans women like respectable members of society?
Author	bbaker1987
Upvotes	42
Comments	13
Date	February 15, 2021 3:53 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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