Downward spiral

throw-away-1709 · 2020-10-28T09:26:43+00:00

You know the good thing about the bottom?

You can stand up.

Every time.

It is not about how many times you fall. It is about that you stand up one more time.

KirthWGersen · 2020-10-28T07:05:35+00:00

This is a great opportunity for you.

You are in a hole, so stop digging.

You are unhappy with many aspects of your life and feel like everything is falling apart. The good thing about this is that it is usually only at times like these that people have the motivation to make the changes they should have made all along.

Things can only get better from here. Relax, sit down or go for a walk, think of every aspect of your life and rank how happy you are with it from one to ten. Look back at all the major decisions you have made in your life and decide how happy you are with them. What would you do the same again and what would you change? Be brutal with yourself; but also don't throw the baby out with the bathwater.

Then decide how you want to change all those aspects: step by step, little by little. Start with the things that are easiest to change and work your way up.

If you do this, you'll look back in 6 months to a year and wonder how you ever felt the way you do now and why you didn't make those changes before.

TXJohn83 · 2020-10-28T13:48:59+00:00

Move on. Get some education, and get to the gym, up your SVM and find a better job and girlfriend.

Reasonable-Sense-377 · 2020-10-30T03:32:01+00:00

Bro just hit rock bottom than build up

ppvknifefight · 2020-10-30T18:14:32+00:00

fall down seven times get up eight, the story of man.

You're still alive. Everything you've mentioned can be fixed in weeks of concentrated effort.

Title	Downward spiral
Author	SteveRogersPill
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	October 28, 2020 6:54 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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