I see so many posts on here regarding sexual partners and what is considered “too many” for a LTR and what should be viewed as strictly plate material.

Lets take a woman in their upper 20’s - early 30’s for example - I see some giving thresholds such as “7 is acceptable but 10 is too high and disqualifies the individual”. While others say “7 is not any different than 10.”

Statistically speaking, 10 partners is 42.8% higher than someone who had 7 partners. So they’ve had nearly an additional 50% more partners than the person with 7. So from that perspective - I do see 10 as quite a bit higher than 7. I mean you remove those 3 from 7 and you’re at 4.

Ultimately of course I do realize these are both personal preferences along with key factors to ensure success.

I personally have no interest in anyone who engages in causal sex, drunken hook ups, FWB etc. I also always inspect for red flags - Family / parent relationship, ambitions / goals, substance use, how she dresses / talks, how she is with her finances. Ect