I love this sub. I literally only visit FDS subs anymore (and the guinea pig sub because well guinea pigs). Honestly the amount of safety and support I find on this sub I didn’t think Reddit was even capable of. I have never felt more confident or deserving of happiness since I discovered FDS.

All of you Queens are awesome and inspire me every day to be my best self and only accept the very best of what life has to offer. You all share very personal stories in such an open and honest way hoping to better all of us ladies. I know it’s not easy but watching the strength that so many of you have and how you stand firm to your values and standards reminds me I have it within me to do the same.

My mother is a HVW and for years told me all of the things in the FDS handbook. I thought she was old fashioned and I didn’t deserve to be treated like that but since discovering this sub we are having deep conversations about what I should and shouldn’t accept in a partner. It’s eye opening.

I know we get hate but of all the subs I’ve visited (and I’ve visited a lot ) I’ve never seen a sub handle criticism with the dignity, grace and humor you all do. You don’t let it effect you and you don’t lower yourself to the other person’s level. And you face every criticism and hateful comment or article very articulately and with logic and sound examples.

I’m just so proud and thankful this sub exists and for all of the input that you Queens provide. I finally feel I have found a supportive community to help guide me into being a better woman. Thank you!