TL/DR - friend from the scorched earth past resurfaced and interfering with current FWB. Looking for advice on maintaining my calm

 

Because of how things ended with the most recent LTR I found this subreddit and learned a lot. I have also had to more or less deal with a "nuke it from orbit" mentality when dealing with the friends of the now ex.

 

For the most part I have been working on myself and maintaining my calm and moving forward with my RP life.

 

This past weekend while out with a FWB, she posted a picture on social media of us out having a good time. One of my old friends saw it, he had wanted to get with her in the past and contacted her while she was with me. She isn't interested in him for various reasons and he never made a move before and probably won't now either - but...

 

There is a part of me that wants her to send me a screenshot of the conversation so the next time my former friend pops up with the "hey buddy can you help a bro out with... " I can smile and say, "not only nope - but friends don't do this kind of crap."  

The thing is I know it is small and petty and I should not let it get to me. But it does.  

So my Red Pill brothers, have you ever had to let go of the male friends of your past Blue Pill life, did they keep trying to pop up, and did they try to make a move on the females you are currently seeing?

 

I have not mastered my anger well enough in the past, but I am getting better at the DGAF.