For context we're both 18. So I've been talking to this plate who is in another state at the moment (we were dating before she moved out there and i broke it off because long distance doesn't work) and we were discussing me coming out there (she's paying for a hotel and all of our food) and i wanted to see her so it seemed like a good idea. However, we were supposed to have drinks in the hotel room as it was going to be her first time and she said she wanted to try it for the first time with me (in the moment) but yesterday she got drunk with her cousins and began drunk texting me and I felt disrespected and lied to which I don't tolerate at all in any of my relationships and she knew that from when we were dating. Im heavily considering not going out there anymore and dropping all communication with her. I wanted to get your guys' input and what a good response to her text would be. This is her last text to me.
Received at 5AM "I can't sleep. I know you're mad at me and I get it. I didn't wait. I had my reasons and at the time they seemed good enough. But the way I feel right now is hurting so much. I didn't mean to upset you tonight. The rejection I got from you stung more than I could ever imagine. It really really hurt. My heads clear now and I just want to say that if I screwed everything up I'm sorry. So sorry because all I know is I love you. You were all I could think of every second of this. At first it was all good but after you told me to stop talking to you it just was hurt. I know you didn't want to talk to me and maybe most of it was in my head but all I felt was you didn't give a dam about me so you just pushed me aside...I don't want to feel that way but I do. So when you wake up please tell me where things are at."
What do you guys think? I'm in university right now so while it would mess with my emotions for a few days to just drop her, I would have no problem doing so.
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