I don't know why there's such an increase in nonsense on askTRP and here but figured I'd toss some wisdom if you will.

I'll try to keep it brief since there's no point in going into a 10 page essay.

Just read whatever you think applies to you.

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Seriously doubt that this post will cause any massive change in either but if it causes one guy to stop, think for a moment, and not post a stupid question then I'll consider it a win.

Incels/Black Pill:

You're choosing this outcome. Not society. Not that cute girl. YOU.

Unless you're honest to god a freak of nature with aids in the most remote and impoverished village in Uganda, you're in the same boat as the overwhelming majority of guys. The difference between the guy that lifts, looks drives a fancy car, and has women speed dialing him for sex, is that he's put in the effort.

He's got his body by lifting, multiple times a week, for YEARS He's got the car from making smart decisions and he's got women from honing his social skills.

Take the same guy. Toss him in another part of the world. Take away his gains, his wealth and his status and watch him rise back to the top. Some may have an edge but for overwhelming majority of them they WORKED FOR IT.

"But 319skew, I've got <insert excuse> and I've tried <insert action> but I still can't get a woman of my dream! It's not fair!"

No shit. Life's not fair. Not everyone needs to get a participation award. Why you think YOU deserve something when you offer nothing is beyond me.

If you're not attractive, work on wealth and status. If you're not wealthy, work on your appearance, if you're not either then do what you can and have a realistic standard.

Going up to a hot babe with THOUSANDS of options and expecting her to settle for you because of <reasons> is the same as walking into a BMW dealership and expecting a car for free.

Put the effort. Strive EVERY FUCKING DAY and grow. Make peace with what you can't change.

SIDENOTE: If you're thinking about ending your own life and you're serious about it then seek assistance from a professional. The internet is not your own personal therapist. You can find solidarity but your default shouldn't be that you should end your life. We are not qualified professionals. We don't know all the circumstances that led you here. We all suffer and to various degrees. Suck it up (while valid sometimes) isn't always the best advice given, but at the same time, you shouldn't need to have a talk whenever someone doesn't smile back or meet your eyes outside.

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Women on TRP/ExTRP guys:

We get it. You're the exception to the rule, huh. There's a lot of curious intellectuals, angry feminists, SJW, and other progressives that come into these forums. See a bunch of hurt men, most trying to improve themselves and say "Maybe if you talked more.."

Nope.

There's some hurt men/boys in these forums that are lashing out through the anger phase. Let them. They'll cool down and learn by pushing past that. We'll guide them through it. The overwhelming of men are looking to improve. They've tried your rules and have been ghosted, heart broken, divorced raped, and treated as second class citizens.

You want equality and to show that there are two sides of the same coin. Start a petition to have TRP included into the reddit community and not labelled as a hate group or toxic.

Until that happens, you've can't claim that the field is fair. The deck is not stacked in favor of the average guy. I'm sure you've got facts and anecdotal examples to contest that. That's great. This isn't the place for it.

There's no shortage of spots on reddit for you to make that case. This isn't one.

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My LTR of one week/ My plate that I haven't met - AKA The Retarded TRP Role-player

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Read the fucking side bar.

Seriously. There are tons of guys that have tried what you thought, wrote it down, shared it, got criticism, got it refined and wrote it down for you. If you can't read this and internalize it then what hope do you have to move forward?

Imagine this.

You go to the gym. You decide to bench. You put the plates up and get into position. You should be asking for advice on proper form not to have someone walk you through each rep and assist.

Then, after you've done whatever set you wanted to do, you don't just leave the gym never to come back and expect results, how is this different?

Read. Apply. Fail. Learn. Repeat.

You're a man. Not a boy. It's OK to seek help but Jesus Christ, how much of a man can you be if you need someone to walk you through everything from saying hello to getting your penis into a woman.

Think about it.

Gigga Chad

This is a strange one to voice but there's such a thing as a loss of return on investment. I'm all for self improvement. Get swole. Be a man. Lead. Be the best version of yourself but also realize that your gains can go away from an accident. You can lose your wealth in a misfortune. You're just one tragedy away from this. Be proud of your achievement but be humble in your accomplishments. Everyone starts somewhere. Some start ahead and some start behind. You don't NEED to be a 10/10 super model to get women. You don't need to make 7 figures to be of value to society. You don't need to have a 11 inch dick to pleasure a woman. They're not perfect and neither are you. Just keep improving. Keep that ego in check.

I've got a friend that's like this. He's a very handsome guy and I constantly have to remind him that he doesn't need to have 10% body fat to approach. Unless he's perfect. He won't open any set. You know who you guys are.

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The "I'm not racist but..."

Again, not sure why there's a lot of race bating. Everyone has a preference. You can like one ethnicity or race over another. That's not a racist thing. Society is trying to spin that as something wrong but that's just a preference. Anyone telling you otherwise is an idiot.

With that said, there are factors that I would attribute towards people based on society, culture, nationality, wealth and there are differences. However, this isn't the place to bring that. You're not any better than another person by what you're born into but what you achieve. Every ethnicity, race, and culture has it's shit. Some is more visible then others. Don't be a dick and live with the idea that you're better than another group by virtue of just coming out of the right vagina at the right time in the right place.

Just like feminists, this isn't the place for it.

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The womenz are evil

You were hurt. I get it but women aren't evil. If you think like this then you're immature at best or hopeless at worst.

Women like sex. Men like sex.

Women follow a biological drive. Men follow a biological drive.

Women wants what's best for them. Men want what's best for them.

Sure, your snowflake that you've put on a pedestal has a past but if you're playing your cards right so should you. You can't fault her for capitalizing on her options anymore than someone should get mad at you for taking a promotion or a job that pays more.

See how retarted that sounds? Yea, that's how you are.

I always say this. Want a friend. Find a guy and go through shit. Want loyalty. Get a dog. Want companionship. Women are great for that, but don't invest into women as a replacement mother, nurse, maid, chef, lover, and best friend. It's not fair to both of you.

Date around. Enjoy the options you have. Be a man that women want to settle down with and if one matches your criteria and works towards it. Then by all means enjoy the LTR. Key phrase is works towards it. Don't make it so that YOU ARE looking to promote her to that role. Instead have strive to qualify herself as a woman worth keeping while you work as being a man that's worth having.

If it works then great. If it doesn't then that's fine too. There's no shortage to be angry about.

We've all had someone we loved or wanted and not everything works out. Life's about moving forward not staying in the past. So, move the fuck forward. Every minute you spend bitter about what happened and what is happening that doesn't concern you is one that you've wasted over absolutely nothing.

I've got stories that would make your blood boil from what I've seen women do and you're here bitching that someone you just met didn't respond within 30 minutes to a text you sent.

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TL;DR: If you fit any of these examples, take a breather, go for a walk, read the side bar, reflect on your choices and realize that you're the master of your own domain. Bitching about it (ironic, I know) isn't going to help you more than actively moving forward.

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Really didn't want to write this much but scroll down TRP and check which scenarios seem like common sense, stupid questions, or just insecurity and on the main page, there's like 100 page thesis on intersexual relationships or a field report where a guy seduces a single mother pushing 40 that he met on Tinder.