Ok this is for the more experienced guys here. I'm in a bit of an awkward situation. The general advice here is to not get married as society has fucked up the family, this is good advice.

Here is my situation. I'm a member of a large family, a family where males are obligated to provide children. My father had many children, my brothers have had many children and all my sisters have had many children. There are several traditions in the family, mostly involving things like mandatory military service and how we name our children. I mention this just to outline how important things like tradition and obligations are.

So you can see the problem here. I don't want to get frivorace raped and fucked over by society, yet I need to provide biological grandchildren. My current solution is to seek a SO from the East Asian corner of the world as I find them a bit more predictable and dedicated to traditions. I run the risk of them westernizing and having they're inner hamsters set free.

Are there any other men here in this same or similar situation?

-Edit- Ok I might of been a bit unclear. Family is extremely important to me, I won't just tell them to fuck off. We are a rather prolific bunch, and man not having kids = failure to them. And honestly they wouldn't be wrong, biologically speaking not passing on your genetics is classical Darwinian failure. When I say tradition and obligation are important to my family, that includes me. We're very conservative, most are active members of the LDS Church though I converted out awhile back.

For those asking if I want kids, eventually yes I do. I'm just looking for an optimal way to go about it.