Timeframe between first and second date

MattyAnon · 2021-06-22T00:43:28+00:00

Hung out with a girl on a Sunday. Messaged her the next day (Monday) making a loose suggestion for the second hang out.

Too fast.

. I want to meet her again ASAP, b

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ut is it better to say next week to make myself unavailable/not look too keen? Or is it better to meet ASAP to strike when the iron is hot?

Hang out Sunday.

Text Tuesday or Wednesday, but not aiming for a meet.

Text Thursday for Saturday.

Remarkable-Paper-814 · 2021-06-22T00:44:19+00:00

Strike when the iron is hot. Until the second date you are nothing else than a fling/ons. After the second one, you establish yourself as something more in her mind.

kclanton80 · 2021-06-22T03:35:45+00:00

Since you already inquired about setting up the second date you shouldn't make it for this week. Waiting several days before asking for another date would have been the better option but since you already brought it up there's no need to delay. Get back in the saddle quickly

Title	Timeframe between first and second date
Author	diablowolf5
Upvotes	1
Comments	11
Date	June 22, 2021 12:11 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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