I just want to cry out of embarrassment of how I let myself go through what I did. For some reason it has been a lasting annoyance to me that had me feeling like the ultimate simp and incel. How to get rid of this past reminder when u try to work on yourself? I fear falling back into that cycle.

Has anyone successfully made a transition to a baddie/glowed up/wifey material? How did you become more confident/assertive? How are men receiving you now, what changed, what lessons did you learn? What mistakes did you make that others might fall into?