Being promiscuous man or woman is trashy and both face consequences.

loneliness-inc · 2021-07-05T15:11:50+00:00

A few things.

This is kind of related to the theme of our forum, but it doesn't exactly fit. See rule 5 for more details.
Your title certainly doesn't reflect the theme.
Your title is even worse because of your attempt to achieve gender equality. Sex holds different meaning for men and women. Thus, almost no element of human sexuality is equal or equally anything.

peguy2000 · 2021-07-05T13:20:15+00:00

Except that women prefer men with high body count. Its called pre selection. Women also prefer men with dark triad traits. Stop acting like women and men are the same

Maximum-Durian7688 · 2021-07-05T13:44:44+00:00

"Past endeavours hardly affect your current partners"

Then why do feel ashamed of your past? Shouldn't you feel proud to tell your new partner what you did with many other men? Sheesh, it's almost like being a promiscuous woman is bad for your mental health, pair bonding ability and reputation as a lady.

amameyplebbitor · 2021-07-05T13:35:52+00:00

I'm of the mind that people should do whatever they want but they should also acknowledge that actions have consequences. A woman should be as promiscuous as she desires, however she has no right to claim people are shaming her to things she knew she'd be shamed for. It's undeniable that promiscuous women might be fun but with that comes the fact they're not relationship-material and not worth committing too. I fail to see what's so difficult to understand about it.

From the askmen forum:

I think the problem is the thinking that if you are the type of woman who can deliberately choose to have a relationship just for the sex benefits what would stop that trait from expressing itself after marriage, while at work or when meeting any new acquaintance with whom you chose to have "just a sex" relationship with?

Men don't have a problem with a woman who enjoys sex, they have a problem when she expresses it without shame, guilt or control.

You have to remember, liberation works for you until you get into a relationship. Then it tends to work against you.

Why do men have problem with women who enjoy sex ?

Guys want women who enjoy sex--I can't imagine being with a woman who didn't. Thankfully the misses is game for my hangdown whenever the mood strikes.

That's why the question you asked is a silly and incorrect one. The answer becomes much clearer when you ask the real question: why don't guys want to be with a woman who fvcks every Tom, Dick, and Harry?

I think the same is true for women, too. Do women really like guys who fvck everything with two legs and vagina?

YourFavouriteGuy · 2021-07-05T13:57:58+00:00

It is harming your current partner, you are lying to them

Body counts always affects your current partner if you are a woman, because it is linked to shorter marriages and higher divorce rates. Men don't want to take that kind of risk.

NickTesla2018 · 2021-07-05T14:08:34+00:00

A guy with a great future, does not want a woman with a past. Or the town bicycle.

Frequentbadideas · 2021-07-05T14:01:40+00:00

The last poster point is super valid, Been monk for a while but one of my fwb I hooked up with in my man whoring faze after my divorce found a picture of me when I was in the Military. She asked if I'd ever killed anyone and even though it's something I dont particularly like to talk about I said I had. She freaking lost it, her whole demeanor changed, she got weirdly excited over the whole thing. It was fucking as weird an encounter as I've ever had. The opposite side is that I've been ghosted when people find out you are a vet..... women are just ....odd.

letmeeatcake97 · 2021-07-05T14:09:47+00:00

A woman who is willing to risk pregnancy for momentary pleasure with someone she doesn't even love/ have a relationship with is personally super unattractive to me, and I'm not being a hypocrite when I say that because I'm myself only intimate with anyone if I'm dating them or am in love with them and can't date due to distance or something.

againstplutophobia · 2021-07-05T14:52:07+00:00

Many women care about a man's sexual history if it involved prostitutes. It's a deal breaker for a lot of them.

Title	Being promiscuous man or woman is trashy and both face consequences.
Author	KW1112563
Upvotes	87
Comments	33
Date	July 5, 2021 1:04 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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