When did you become redpilled on women?

BuildItMakeIt · 2021-07-07T04:41:26+00:00

I was in relationship with ex for 10 years. Did everything for her, took care of all her needs, made her life easy.

One day I needed some support. Realized it was a one-way street. While I cared about her well-being, she wasn't able to reciprocate.

Soon after she fell for a coworker and monkey-branched. When I asked "why?", she told me "he's tall".

That's all I needed to know.

My life has been a lot less stressful since she left. I have more money, no stress, and only need to cook for one now, and then I have leftovers for myself too. She required constant stimulation and entertainment, it was a second full-time job.

The juice is not worth the squeeze.

FriendsDontHurtOther · 2021-07-07T06:15:36+00:00

When the girl of my dreams that I was “dating”decided to trick me, and she actually became a nun.

The trick was she was pretending to like me, so she would “bring me closer to God”. Another notch in her belt that she “saved”.

c42h70w · 2021-07-07T03:31:35+00:00

Age 12, sometime around 07/08, kinda just thought I should always look into my own best interest and really honed in on not caring to be a “cool kid”. Much of the people I went to middle school with haven’t amounted to anything, so I don’t feel like there’s any relationships I missed out on.

Number_Useful · 2021-07-07T06:21:53+00:00

Many failed relationships. No matter what, something went wrong. I also have a sister and thinking back to all the drama she put our family through it just clicked one day.

acdcnate · 2021-07-07T11:01:55+00:00

I seperated from my cheating ex wife in 2019. Started a relationship with a girl I met online, things were going really great. I started falling for her, hard. We went out numerous times, and had a lot of fun dates and I felt a real connection to her. Then she tells me that we are NOT exclusive. She then told me her mom was sick and had to go take care of her. I send her mom flowers and do what I can to help out. Never heard from her again and was ghosted after 4 months of dating.

Through some mutual friends and online digging I found out that:

She and her "ex" were in the navy. She claimed he cheated on her. Nope, she was ceating on him while he was deployed.
Mom was not sick at all.
She moved to California this year because her navy career was on the fritz.
He filed for divorce on her, she claimed the divorce was final and that she initiated.

After the initial pain I sat down and found mgtow. Before I did, I even told my buddy "there are no good men left (i.e. old fashioned, marriage oriented) because they are transformed by women like this".

I was the delusional old fashioned romantic. I paid for everything, held the door, planned the dates, etc. It is just not worth the effort and emotional investment when women have a cock buffet and no impulse control.

TheFuckinWeeb · 2021-07-07T04:46:54+00:00

When I think about it

I guess from the day when i got to know what marriage is

At the age of 8

When my mom told me what it is

The first thing that came into my mind was "That sounds like a shit idea"

Since then it has only gotten stronger

So much so that

I dont even feel like getting laid as its too much of a pain

Wakka_Grand_Wizard · 2021-07-07T07:59:06+00:00

Probably when my first ex would constantly tell me about a narcissistic guy she was fucking with. She told me how her sex drive was suddenly high yet she complained about my high sex drive. She was a so called "unicorn". Let's not kid ourselves, I had a small gut feeling that she would turn into a slut. I mean, being surrounded by men in a male dominated field and all that. Anyways, I had to research that shit because I was seriously contemplating suicide. I am glad I did because I found like-minded men

Sea_Temperature8667 · 2021-07-07T06:31:18+00:00

I forgot. It was basically instinct. But if I had to guess when I realized relationships weren't shit, I would say early to mid twenties.

Cestus_Saphrax · 2021-07-07T07:10:56+00:00

Slowly during marriage. Process was finished after divorce.

LongTimeOn · 2021-07-07T10:03:07+00:00

I guess my 1st real glimpse was at uni with girls all over the jocks and shitting on their long term boyfriends at home. Later on when my parents got divorced and my mother cheated on my father when he lost his job. Even later myself when my exw cut off all affection and sex and became a worthless slob.

After that last episode I started down the RP journey and consumed Coach Greg Adams, Tom Leykis, Sandman etc..which really opened my eyes. It was this awakening that made me take stock of the joke my marriage had become and start the process of extracting myself by emotional distancing first (so I don't give a crap about her) and later pulling the plug.

I can honestly say that if I'd had access to this info at a young age I would NEVER have gotten married. I have two kids who I adore, but if I could have them without their mother, then I would have taken that option for sure.

Twobithatter · 2021-07-07T06:55:41+00:00

I feel like everyday I get more and more redpilled. Everyday a girl does something that makes me push them away.

amb1978 · 2021-07-07T12:51:23+00:00

Married. She cheated. Pregnant with another man's child while we were married.
Fast forward. Dated someone who wanted to go back to school for a degree. Let her move in, never paid a single bill, got her degree, got a job, then left for a coworker.
Doesn't matter how well you treat them, it's just your turn until she finds someone she thinks is a better option.

Real_Reality_877 · 2021-07-07T06:32:41+00:00

After dating and getting emotionally damaged by a single mother. Oh and of course my dumbass knocked her up......

Garo117 · 2021-07-07T09:27:06+00:00

prob middle school, I looked up dating advise, little did I know what I was actually learning was red pill knowledge haha. A happy lil accident

TomFPark · 2021-07-07T12:23:26+00:00

In college, I was with a woman who was bright, articulate, bubbly, and beautiful. After some time, months, pieces of information fell on my lap indicating I was her side man. After putting the pieces together, I broke it off. She said she wanted me. I told her "If you'd do that to him, you'd do that to me."

Itisoutthere · 2021-07-07T13:15:05+00:00

Hmm good question...

You could say it was a long journey.

The first and initial steps comes from my mother.

She told me to keep my things for me (money, time and evrything else) cause many ladies out there only care for that.

The second thing was the conclusion that I couldn`t see any nice and warm rl in my surounding. Not when I look at the neighbours or in my own family.

All of them had divorces , get cheated on or are unhappily together for the loan or the children.

After I become a father I did what has to be done.

I cared and become a real father.

When my ex come to the conclusion that a life without unpaid bills and a normal but paid car isn`t enough thrill for her she could take her Tupperware and clothes and go.

That was the moment I realised that I did everthing right. It was my exclusive bank account , my paid bills and so on.

After this long rl I wandered arround and met two or three women.

What can I say. Some of the first questions they asked was like :

TeeHee.. How much money do you make....? Do you like fancy restaurants ...?? Do you wan`t to have some more children (maybe my slightly used ones...???

That time sealed the deal.

BackOnTheLogAgain · 2021-07-07T13:40:15+00:00

Ever just date so much to the point it numbs you. Thats why I’m red pilled because most women are just predictable and outcome is always the same so I just resort to be the one that dumps first.

For some odd reason, its more exciting to have your life improved than to be out there dating and wasting money.

mnchrme · 2021-07-07T15:08:27+00:00

I have seen it all. It’s quite ugly.

Title	When did you become redpilled on women?
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Date	July 7, 2021 3:19 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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