I have been reading and trying to be a RP man for a year now. I have been going to the gym consistently. I am now at 16% body fat from 22% body fat. I can see traps now and good muscles forming up.

But, I had only 1 date in last one year. I am Indian by ethnicity. I know I don't meet enough women and that's what causing the desertion. I am on coffee meets bagel and tinder but I hardly get any match. Because of my 9to6 routine and gym, I can't go out every night. I don't drink so I don't go to bars/clubs. I am also 31 and past bar scene.

I know one thing I need to do to have a plate or fwb or girlfriend is to meet enough women. I just don't know where to meet them. I don't have any hobby in particular that has lot of women participating. A group activity such as yoga, rock climbing there are men/women ratio skewed. There are already better looking men competing for women in such activities.

I think it comes down to my face being oddly large. Due to MPB, I shave my head. Despite what is being said here, truth is that it is 100 times difficult for a bald man than one with hair. It is 1000 times difficult if you are bald and Indian.

I dont expect that I should bang every girl I come across. I also understand life is not fair and it is what you make of it. But, not having even a single success is hurting me. In my 20s I kept to myself and hardly went out. I was overweight as well which is fixed now. I just don't know how long should I keep trying ? When am I going to see any success?

Can you share where to meet women as man in 30s with foreign accent?