Holy shit, does it really take that many cold daytime approaches to get any success? This guy has 300:1 approach lay ratio.

MildlyDepraved · 2016-12-11T07:59:28+00:00

He looks like they'd mistaken him for being gay. IMO.

beginner_ · 2016-12-11T09:23:37+00:00

If you are a creepy weirdo looks dont help. You could go 1000:0 being creepy intentionally.

johnsonsson · 2016-12-11T11:27:17+00:00

looks are not everything - and he is not more than average. so. probably breathes like a creep and looks at their tits all the time

Officer_Dick_Johnson · 2016-12-11T09:27:37+00:00

Keep in mind that GLL philosophy is "We are here to get LAID, not anything else" (pretty much).

Of course I can't speak for those guys and what their personal approach is, but heavy screening for dtf chicks and zero tolerance to flakes could polarize the averrages even more.

However, even if those averages are on a good side of thingsm what else can you do? Give up? Nahh…

[deleted] · 2016-12-11T10:37:25+00:00

[permanently deleted]

Musicgoon · 2016-12-11T20:25:34+00:00

Bro, social skills have a ton of sway when dating. I'm a bit chunky, but working on that shit. But, I approach all the time and I strike out maybe 1 in 10 times. It's all about frame and confidence.

Don't compare yourself to others. You don't know if the dude has shitty game or is socially retarded.

And definitely stop the hamster wheel. It's a bad excuse to not try. I know the old rationale of: well this guy has , and _, and __. And isn't successful. How could I be successful?

Do your own thing and worry about improving yourself.

subjectivealpha · 2016-12-11T09:05:33+00:00

Cold approach isn't very easy if you don't have a good looking face. With a shirt on they can't see his body, although it probably helps.

mushroommountains · 2016-12-11T10:04:55+00:00

I can only imagine they're doing something wrong cause that's just fucked

AceBenedict23 · 2016-12-11T12:12:40+00:00

Without seeing him cold approach, its hard to say why his ratio is so low.

I'd say his biggest advantage is his body. However in the winter right now, his clothes will be covering up all that muscle mass and that big advantage will be negated.

Zooming in on that picture his face doesn't look even average aesthetically. Now this part I'm totally assuming, but he probably can't dress for shit, and he likely acts super creepy when he's approaching these chicks. But then again...that's being totally presumptuous. We don't have enough info.

Because my social circle didn't have any women I'm interested in, I cold approached and the success was solid at least for the small sample size of a few days I've done it so far. My advantages are different, but may be more suited to cold approaching. I'm really tall, dark and have recently spent a lot of money upgrading my clothes. Putting forth an aura of extreme confidence has seemingly helped create good interactions where on rejections it's never dismissive, very few girls will openly disrespect etc

oldredder · 2016-12-11T19:02:06+00:00

Yes it does and it could take 1000.

Women are being SUPER-picky and entitled and so many men are thirsty slobs that women don't even have to try. They flat out just have so many options only the UPPERMOST best men get options like that. All the rest get scraps.

homelessWOOKIE9 · 2016-12-11T19:59:55+00:00

don't count the losses, only count the wins. If he approaches 300 people a day he's gonna get laid every day. (until he runs out of people in town)

blackedoutfast · 2016-12-11T20:52:06+00:00

300:1 cold approach to fuck ratio is pretty bad but honestly no one is out there seducing every single girl they meet. a decent looking guy who has decent game doing daytime cold approaches on complete strangers it'a going to be something like 100:1. roughly 10% of the girls he opens will agree to grab some coffee or go on a date or whatever. and roughly 10% of those will result in a lay.

even the master PUAs teaching classes and shit and the guys racking up triple digit notch counts from ONS aren't going to have a significantly better conversion ratio. those guys are just much faster and more efficient at getting a quick yes or no. that's why things like polarization and getting over your fear of rejection are so important.

Title	Holy shit, does it really take that many cold daytime approaches to get any success? This guy has 300:1 approach lay ratio.
Author	5trooper
Upvotes	9
Comments	44
Date	December 11, 2016 7:51 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/5hp3ai/holy_shit_does_it_really_take_that_many_cold/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/holy-shit-does-it-really-take-that-many-cold.78947 https://theredarchive.com/post/78947

Comments