I would consider myself fairly masculine. But there are some traits about me that im not sure would be appealing to women. In terms of self upkeep. I use victoria secret lotion, exfoliate my face, expensive shampoo and conditioner, trim my eyebrows, lip balm, and more.

In the eyes of a woman are these actions deplorable? Should I ever share this in a conversation? Does it really matter? Is it more masculine to just be a rough and tough dude with a bushy beard and hair everywhere. Or is it just preference in the eyes of different women?