Ltr ignored text

loveydovey2121 · 2016-12-18T00:53:28+00:00

Im just amazed you found an LTR that only txt's for logistics. I understand that we do that for plates but usually once a girl knows she has a man committed then she wants to talk to him a lot more than if they were just FWB or a plate.

Ramo029 · 2016-12-18T08:33:07+00:00

are you serious? you're waaaay over reacting, who the fuck knows what could have happened. fell asleep, phone died, forgot, etc. you're taking this way too personal, forget about it it's only text anyways

Willow-girl · 2016-12-18T14:13:02+00:00

Is this really a hill you want to die on?

trpchecker · 2016-12-22T00:52:32+00:00

DO NOT FOR THE LOVE OF GOD GET INTO STUPID SMALL FRAME BATTLES. Oh god your girl is probably loving this shit. I think you are new to LTRs. This is very normal in relationships. You are taking the redpill too hard.

What text did she ignore anyway? - You need to be more clear.

She is probably unknowingly shit testing you. If you react to this which you did, she's going to do this more to piss you off, which she did. ROFL. Just reduce the amount of texts. Maybe you were being too needy?

If she does any of this shit again and again, just let her know in a calm flirty way, without arguing and move on.

For now when she re-initiates just act as if nothing happened and move on. Pressure flip on her and ask her is everything okay? You seem distant. She'll say something like : Nah all good. You say cool. And continue an awesome conversation. She'll completely forget about any of this ever happening.

Try to text less in LTRs. Encourage her to call you instead. Don't make it too long though.

This will also create games where she will tell I can't take your call. She won't answer your call. Or if you forget to take your call. When you call her she'll not answer etc. These are normal. Just ignore all those games and just enjoy the conversation. She'll eventually cut it off. You'll have to blast through it.

Rule of thumb. If she doesn't reply to a text, you wait for her to re-initiate. If she doesn't answer your call. You wait for her to call you back. If she does this always. Let her know, damn girl you are busy one. I think from here on you call me, I think that's better :) always with a calm happy tone.

There will be lots of small games your girl will constantly play with you. Don't see it as disrespect. If you see it as disrespect, then she will think she can get away with disrespect. See it as a little child playing tricks with you. You are this adult who doesn't care if the little child is doing these small stupid games. You just find it amusing.

Of course real disrespect of your time is bad. If that happens, for example cutting your call because you said something that pissed her off. Let her know that you love/like her, but find it disrespectful and that you don't want that in your relationship, and if she is not happy with your terms she should leave, and that you don't want to argue about it. Do not let her argue and ask her to take a days time to make that decision.

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Title	Ltr ignored text
Author	nisocaniso
Upvotes	0
Comments	9
Date	December 18, 2016 12:39 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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