Last Friday I met up with a girl for a date. I asked if she wanted to hang out, and she said let's meet for drinks. I said why not get dinner instead, so we meet up at a bouge place that she suggested. When I arrive she's sitting, talking on her phone. Then she looks up at me and then starts to stare at every fucking guy that passes almost intentionally as if she's trying to shit test me or saying I'm not interested until I start making interesting conversation that catched her interest. Her persona that she portrayed when I first meet her, which was one week ago, is completely different: she had the nice girl vibe but now she's more frank and has the slutty vibe. We eat and she orders one drink and slowly finishes it off until the end of the meal around 10PM. I keep the conversation going and try to keep the conversation light, assuming, and direct, but I don't mention her odd, eerie, and slutty behavior. Based on her profession [white collared], she is intelligent enough to know basic dating etiquettes. I pay for the date and she seems very pleased that she extracted a free meal from her prey. I end the interaction without any chemistry leaving with a very bad aftertaste of today's experience.

The thing is, in my book she was about 6.5-7/10

Her arms probably creeped me out because her arms look like she took a starving african child's arm and surgically attached it to herself.... The only thing decent about this girl was probably her face which was aging out as well. I just wanted to test her out, but I didn't know I would be burned this badly...

Frankly speaking, I could game girls that were probably younger and hotter but I learned a lot from this experience. Better luck next time.

I'm just curious... What would you have done in this situation to mitigate the damage? Or what could I do next time if a similar situation happened so I could keep my self dignity to say the least?

I came up with a few counter measures if this were to happen to me again in the future with a different girl.

  1. Do the thing she does and actively game and talk to other girls in front of her
  2. Stand up and leave
  3. When the bill comes, smile and say, "Why don't we Dutch pay this time?"
  4. Or when I catch her staring at other guys in front of me, I'll just be frank and say, "Aren't you a starving slut" lol