Need some advice ASAP

wildasthewind77 · 2021-06-16T18:51:06+00:00

Your girlfriend it's not at fault for other people's wrong doings. You have been long enough with her then it's your call whether she is worth keeping ir not. Don't throw away something positive in your life for something you read online. That applies to any advice you read on the internet.

Extra-Strike2276 · 2021-06-16T20:58:15+00:00

I've been with my girlfriend for 19 years. I'm not gonna leave her because of all the shit other women do. If something happened with our relationship, I wouldn't bother finding another women though. I'd have to say I don't put up with as much as I used too either.

If your girlfriend isn't a problem, then why would you make her one? You can trust her, while still protecting yourself in case you find out later you shouldn't have.

ActualBoysenberry991 · 2021-06-17T03:21:15+00:00

it seems like you just lack the emotional capacity to be in a relationship man. if you’re getting upset at your girlfriend for things that OTHER people are doing, that she has nothing to do with, you have some serious. you said you get pissed when she asks for more attention, it’s solely because she wants to spend time with you and feel like you care about her which you obviously do not. I strongly suggest you end this relationship for her sake.

manfrom-nantucket · 2021-06-17T03:07:17+00:00

It is entirely possible to be turned off by female behavior and not be gay - so calm down no one's accusing you of being a homo.
Is your current gf doing any of these things - is she shit testing you? If yes then you crush every shit test by treating it as such - a shit test.
Are you cohabitating? If not good, don't. If she is talking about co-habitating, tell her that you prefer to have your own space and are not interested in it. If she throws and ultimatum at you don't be afraid to walk away - no vagina is worth your freedom.
If you are living together, then limit damage by laying down the law. No you don't kick her ass, instead you pay attention - to where money is spent, how it is spent and what's going on. Too many guys just check out and just hand their paychecks over to the woman.

Impossible-asset · 2021-06-16T21:03:37+00:00

If you don't live together keep it that way.

If you aren't married, keep it that way.

Beyond that you should know her well enough by now to know if she's worth keeping around. Just make sure it's on your terms.

TeddyMGTOW · 2021-06-16T19:28:42+00:00

Well as long as you are RP aware and don't get married most things are fixable....

Locktherockkachow · 2021-06-16T18:52:09+00:00

You have to look and talk to your girl about it. There are girls out there that will only date you to marry you, and then they will have kids with you. Then they will leave you and take your kids and your money and you will be sad. HOWEVER, not every girl is like this. They are women out there that want a stable relationship with a man they love and will not leave. Despite what some people on this sub say, these women do exist. This can make is hard for someone that wants to go into a relationship, mainly if they want to get married and have kids, which could cause more pain later down the road.

What to do is not easy, but it would take a lot of talking to your girlfriend about your concerns. There are some red flags that can appear when you ask her about her goals and what she wants from your relationship, but sometimes you may not be able to tell until it is too late. Just talk to her about it, and lay out what you want.

Another idea would be talk to various men about what you are going through, including men that never married, men that have bad marriages, and men that have good marriages, and compare. Also, ask yourself the question of when you retire, where do you see yourself. Do you want to be surrounded by a loving family, or would you rather be alone and free to do what you please. I'm not saying either one is bad, but I am saying that you need to do what is best for you.

In summary, communicate with your girlfriend about what you are feeling.

crushed_beer_can · 2021-06-16T20:23:06+00:00

grow some balls.

OneComfortable3508 · 2021-06-16T22:15:16+00:00

Sounds like things are fine and you are obsessing over what’s going on in other people’s lives. With that type of thinking there is literally no limit to the worries and troubles you can choose to round up and then bring into your worry inner circle. Example: I saw some guy get hit by a car so I shouldn’t walk on sidewalks now. I think you are going the wrong direction given your situation and are about to make ill something that is healthy. Keep your head on and you will be fine.

Title	Need some advice ASAP
Author	hunglowmanlett
Upvotes	1
Comments	41
Date	June 16, 2021 6:30 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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