Needs guidance/advise

JusW4naRetireFk · 2021-03-16T06:48:49+00:00

I'm in my 60s, single, never married, no kids, and no regrets. Up until my 30s, I always thought I'd get married and have kids, simply because that's what men do. Then in my 30s, I realised that I wasn't particularly keen for either. I thought, "If it happens, it happens". It didn't happen, and I'm okay with it.

But that was me. MGTOW is about what's best for me, not what's best for you. If you really want kids, then you should have kids. I'd recommend you also get married, because kids thrive best in a two-parent family according to all the studies I've seen.

You've lurked here for a while so you'll know what you'll be getting into should you marry. That puts you ahead of a lot of men who go into it blindly. And remember marriage isn't a death sentence. Some men will be happier being married than being MGTOW. It's simply a fact. Best wishes, brother!

BubblyBath7 · 2021-03-16T07:27:01+00:00

It's not normal in the first place to have sex with multiple women in the first place, societally yes but our society isn't exactly a reasonable thing anymore.

If you fail to pairbond after the first relationship that's not a good thing, to fail 25 times is crazy.

I have no regrets. I've been single for 5 years now.

Deplorable_X · 2021-03-16T07:49:28+00:00

I think deep down, many men want children and a family. If that is what you want, don't let any ideology stay in your way.

There will be risks of course, but nothing is set in stone.

But you have to think whether you are ready to risk accept the things you now know about women. They can absolutely district your life, but some men, find that an acceptable price for the joy of having children. If that is what you want, I hope you find a not so crazy woman.

Moneyandfreedom55 · 2021-03-16T11:36:05+00:00

I’m 37, no kids, never married and definitely no regrets. I also never wanted marriage or kids, it might have crossed my mind from time to time in my 20s but not very often or seriously. I’m definitely different though, and have never really enjoyed woman’s company, but that’s just me. I think if you really want a family you should at least try to, use the knowledge you have obtained here and use it to your advantage. If you decide to marry for lust, we will see you here in the future. Good luck

Reddit1984Censorship · 2021-03-16T13:36:35+00:00

(Im not being mean is just sarcasm im high af :))
If you start seeing unicorns in your family dreams thast a strong sign of delusion dont fly too off of reality.
Like make sure that what you are thinking is actually real and not unicorn thinking, assume that many unfair things will happen to you on that path, the game is not going to be fair at all in all fronts.
So if you do it be prepared to be divorced raped and such, be realistic and protect yourself, dont just jump into the unicorn pool to get fucked.

someoneelseiknow · 2021-03-16T11:56:26+00:00

If you do have a 50/50 custody agreement signed before you have kids

JusW4naRetireFk · 2021-03-16T15:47:08+00:00

Keep in mind the women you’ll probably marry and have kids will have had more dicks in her than fingers. I don’t know how anyone could trust a woman not to cheat, she has nothing to lose and everything to gain.

Kids? Each one over 200K to raise, you’ll probably never see them in a divorce, alimony and child support.

God forbid you get a child with a serious physical or mental impairment, I’m not gambling on a hoe and certainly not gambling on bringing a child with the potential for a subpar life.

The earth is already overpopulated, it doesn’t need more kids, plenty of those in orphanages. Trust issues with women are permanent, avoid falling back into blue pill dreams at your own peril.

johnnycarrotheid · 2021-03-16T09:34:49+00:00

Your only 29, trust me you aren't running out of time.

I'm 36, and iv got an 11yr old, but also have friends the same age that haven't started yet (if they do) including guys in serious relationships. Personally you have an easy 10yrs to think about it, and see how society works out in that time.

If you have kids, don't work to an early grave and let your wife be a SAHM. Equality. Only have kids if your ready to do minimum 50% of the work, if it goes pear shaped, usually does, you want to have your kids at least 50/50, anything else then what's the point?

Title	Needs guidance/advise
Author	GummyBum69
Upvotes	1
Comments	11
Date	March 16, 2021 2:40 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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