I am going to make this as short and compact as possible.

Had a FwB about two years ago. Broke her off because things got a bit too LTR-ish for me. Held contact though because we live in a small city and it is hard to avoid each other. She happily rode the cock carousel in between then and now.

So recently she got a BF. Textbook beta, is texting her hearts all the time and buying her jewerly. He also openly admitted to her he is afraid and jealous of me. She does not respect him at all and loves to tell me how pathetic he is. I have tried to initiate a cuckhold/open relationship from their side as a joke in reply which she thought was hilarious.

Have to admit she is quite a catch (great body and face) in a small-sized city like I live in. Lots of guys give her attention because of that and she is loving it. Often goes "Oops, I have a boyfriend!" when guys try to go in for the kill. In short: she gets attention 24/7 from guys.

Would love to fuck her again sometime, so figured I should not be as thirsty as those guys. I never initiate over text and when I see her when going out I only give her attention when I feel she deserves it. I have done this over a few weeks and things start to get increasingly intense:

  • She buys me multiple drinks without me having to buy one back

  • She texts/calls me days on beforehand if I am going out on Friday or Saturday

  • When going out and her boyfriend is there as well she often asks if I want to go to another venue, just the two of us

  • She cancels dates with her boyfriend to see me

  • Beside kissing and above I can do anything with her what I want, including touching her in the crotch

  • People ask all the time if she is my girlfriend, even in front of her own boyfriend

I have been wondering if this attention whoring though because when I try to go in for the kill (like when we touch lips) she pushes me away and says she has a BF. Would love to have some advice on that.