Hey all,

I've been on TRP for a few years now and need some advice for me to get back on my feet.

I recently graduated school and landed a job in NYC. The good news. Bad news; the closet place I have to live near my job is a 2 and a half hour commute one way. I come back to my father who constantly finds something to bitch or moan about no matter what I do to prevent it. I get a rush of anxiety as soon as I know I have to come back.

After getting my first job with my degree I realize it's not what I want to be doing; Accounting. I don't make enough to justify the commute but I'm nervous I won't be able to find another job.

I feel as if I pushed all of my friends and family away from being to Machiavellian and have come crashing down. I'm in a really bad place right now and I need some advice from some of the guys on here as to what I should do.

Picking up girls is not an issue albeit all of this happening (even though it's not what I should be focusing on.) I need to find a new career being a recent college grad that is much more lucrative , rewarding, and doesn't involve sitting behind a cubicle.

So I'm asking for help for 3 things:

  1. Career
  2. Somewhere to live on an entry level salary
  3. Building my relationships again.

Please any advice would help. I don't want to feel sorry for myself anymore but I need some guidance from you.