Give me your thoughts on this situation please

LonelyBobcat · 2020-05-15T17:29:48+00:00

So I met a girl a couple weeks ago

dropped. Honestly its not worth our time, let alone yours. If there is a problem with a woman its time to just move on, stop giving them your energy, stop trying to give them ours.

Jake4523 · 2020-05-15T18:14:05+00:00

She is already bored with you, happens more often than not. Just drop her, and yes even if you shared personal stories or info to her, just do it. Save you time and energy.

kparker66 · 2020-05-15T15:57:44+00:00

You’re invested. She’s not. Move on. Rage? Why? You’ve been seeing her for a short while and already looking at rage because she doesn’t respond to you. Clearly she sees this and is more emotionally stable than you are. That’s ok. Women mature faster than we do. Hell, you’re checking her tinder account, sounds like you’re stalking. Move on man. Focus on you. Grow you.

may_seven · 2020-05-15T22:28:06+00:00

she was sizing you up, to add you to her collection of simp orbiters. congrats you failed to make the cut. the canine equivalent is the mutual butt sniff, then the dogs move on.

best part is someday, when her 85 orbiters move on, burn out, tapped out, she will remember sniffing your bungus and hit you up. so satisfying to tell these thots no. thats right, your answer is no. what ever it is, no. now nod your head up to show me you understand.

do not contact her again. go ghost. she has forgotten you already.

focus on the marathon, forget the thot. training for the marathon is far more satisfying than the pursuit of women. you chase the finish line, cross the line and collect a medal. chase women, it is an endless painful chore, and the line constantly moves another mile down the road. a woman will never give you a medal.

Impossible-asset · 2020-05-15T21:35:52+00:00

Why are you angry man? Let it go its like standing in the rain and getting pissed at the water instead of just going inside.

MrRadDad · 2020-05-16T05:40:19+00:00

You're 19. Here's an experiment... Choke your chicken when you feel the Tinder urge. Then think about how you're feeling post-nut....probably you won't care to use Tinder at that point.

It's hormones, your age=huge hormones.. She already lost interest in you, but not that it matters. Go enjoy your day, work on yourself. GYOW.

2020-05-15T16:03:31+00:00

She doesn't care so, erase her from your life and move on!

Han_GYOW · 2020-05-16T18:58:08+00:00

Most women are talking/seeing multiple men at every stage of dating/relationship/marriage. The only ones who aren’t are the most bitter. Like angry feminists and fat house wives are the only ones who don’t have multiple dudes in their back pocket. “Friends”, orbiters, exes, coworkers. Literally a secret cabal of guys who all want to fuck her, only kept at bay because she has some semblance of loyalty, but that loyalty is on a tightrope and can fall right off once she gets tingles for someone else.

I won’t go as far as saying most women are sleeping with multiple guys, but I will stand behind my statement that they are talking and opening up to many guys at once.

So you’ve been seeing this chick for a few weeks, it’s nice because you feel a vibe, and she might too. The thing about vibrations is you feel the strongest ones.

Here is an example. If you are sitting on your couch you could feel your cellphone vibrating on the arm rest. Now imagine the cellphone is still sitting there vibrating, and suddenly there’s a 5.0 earthquake at the same time. You are not going to be feeling the little cellphone vibration anymore.

The biggest blind spot guys have is when dating/relationship/marriage goes wrong the the chick high tails it with another dude, they just can’t seem to piece together how they lose interest/cheat/divorce and lose feelings so easily and fast. The truth is remember the good memories? The good times you had when your romance was at its peak? She was still texting some other dude then. That’s the harsh reality. Your best times are her ok times.

It really sucks because they think the chick just immediately dumped them for someone else out of the blue, and they struggle with doing the detective work of “wtf just happened to my relationship”. There are so many issues guys face with this. It messes with self esteem, self worth, trust issues, image issues etc.

The truth is they have had parallel lines of connections with other guys well before and after they met you, and they don’t care what the repercussions are for people they reject and hurt. I know for a fact that women will weave fiction into “truth” to fix their narrative and protect their ego. They won’t admit they are just shitty for being disloyal monkey branchers. They have to frame their boyfriends/husbands/casual dating partner in a negative light. How many times have men experience quietly enjoying themselves when their woman suddenly starts a fight? Starts complaining and causing disruptive arguments that seemingly come out of nowhere?

Its because they are stitching together a story that explains why they are about to hurt someone for their own selfish gain

At one point you were a priority, but someone she liked better came along and now you are a liability. That’s the simple truth. If she had nothing else going on and felt lonely she would love your company, and at one point she did, but now she feels as if she has something better so you are just spoiled potato’s that’s goes in the trash.

Replicant3982 · 2020-05-15T16:53:43+00:00

She is not interested in you. There is nothing you can do about it.
Stop wasting your time and find next girl on Tinder.

samtrailrunner · 2020-05-17T05:07:30+00:00

Do not put effort into finding women.

Focus on making yourself better. Make sure you have a trade from a trade school. Or a degree in the hard sciences at the University. Build up your reputation for doing more work and better work than required.

This next part is important, trust me on this. After you’ve done this, women will start finding you. They recognize when a man has resources. They make themselves available for those kind of men.

Do not make women in the centre of your universe. You are a man, you will not understand women. Put your effort into making guy friends, because properly done, these friendships were last decades.

burning_midnight_oil · 2020-05-17T06:11:43+00:00

You still have a tinder account - have all the other women in your area suddenly deleted theirs? Swipe away. You haven't even met IRL, you aren't "going steady" and you aren't in a relationship. It doesn't sound "really beta". It just sounds like you need to stop walking around with your whole soul hanging out for people to fuck with. Because people will.

Maybe you need to use your stressful emotions as fuel to work on practising how you handle stressful emotions. Just my 2 cents but you're letting a total stranger control the thoughts in your head.

Last thing - maybe what's deep secret shit for you is casual conversation for the person you're talking to. And a lot of people find the chase fun. It's thrilling. And it's a known fact that dating apps encourage people to flirt with complete strangers with no consequence or commitments.
They're as toxic as internet porn.

kparker66 · 2020-05-15T15:41:37+00:00

I’m 19 btw

kparker66 · 2020-05-15T18:24:30+00:00

Thank you man. It might be the universe because ever since I’ve been feeling like this I’ve been working harder on my goals. It’s like even though I might feel confused and a little crap, there’s this new fire inside of me that wants me to succeed no matter what.

savageTushar · 2020-05-17T10:19:16+00:00

If she read your message & isn't responding to them it means she has lost interest in you & also might've thought you're needy & might expect you to text her again in a couple of days, which you shouldn't.

Also if she has uploaded more pictures of her on tinder, it means she's trying to up her game which also shows that tinder hasn't been working out for her either.

drago8452 · 2020-05-18T17:32:04+00:00

You were at the receiving end of female trickery!

BelchMcWiggles · 2020-05-20T03:35:26+00:00

She was thinking about having sex with you. You didn’t make any moves. She shit tested you and you failed the test. Next case please.

Title	Give me your thoughts on this situation please
Author	kparker66
Upvotes	1
Comments	24
Date	May 15, 2020 3:36 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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