Hello guys, I'm very thankful for what you do here, and wanted to share my story to get more insights and learn, but apparently I was left to oblivion (maybe it's just a noob FR?!).

Here's the link for my story : [[Field report]: Applied Red pill. Got first lay after 18 hours using an online dating App, on Hard Mode.] ( https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5o8do0/field_report_applied_red_pill_got_first_lay_after/)

[EDIT: it was deleted and didn't know, as I used this new account not my main one]

// *** Hello fellas, long time lurker first time poster here. I’d like to share with you my story. And forgive my English.

Background:

I’m a 29yo. engineer, 1m85 -6ft and half inch-, workout and lift sometimes, fit but not muscular, not white but more of Turkish blood. I do have some hobbies, and photography is one of them -it’s a chick magnet for me- I’m also a well read and genuinely curious about people and life in general. living in a big European capital. I’m the typical extrovert, funny, witty, talkative guy, well-groomed and a nice guy. I don’t put the pussy on the pedestal, due to my upbringing in a conservative community, where being a player can jeopardize your reputation. That’s why I was virgin until 26 -just with a couple of hookers in the red district.- and never kissed a woman before. I knew about game for 8 years, I watched a lot of mystery videos, RSD, etc. it always got me results and attraction but never applied kino. Or say I never intended to. I’m confident, and I can spit game, but the hindrance is more moral than anything else.

Last year I stumbled upon /r/mgtow, and learned a lot, but the problem with it, it doesn’t push you to improvement. Then, I read there some threads mocking /r/theredpill, so I check it out and started reading. Man, it was like finding the map to a Treasure on an island. I started reading it for 5 months every day. I hit the sidebar, and went through the archive of Rollo, Roissy, Illimitable, ROK, and the other endorsed contributors and vanguards. I started incorporating it little by little in different sides of my life except getting laid -again, upbringing! -. I started a gym membership, got to watch men style videos -and updated all my nerdy wardrobe-, etc. females in my surroundings noticed that and I got more attention than before. The only thing is, they never initiate. So, I got stuck at this stage. Because I couldn’t risk my reputation.

Intro:

After reading /u/OmLaLa ‘s and /u/JayGatsbyFan ‘s posts on online dating, I decided, 3 days ago, to give it a try, but the problem is, I cannot use my photos in the profile because that would risk my reputation in the community as well as at work. Call me paranoid.

Body:

I took the challenge and said, screw it, I gotta do something -because sexual frustration fucks up with your mind-, I’m getting laid and without revealing my face, real identity, or pay for any shit. I have a spare phone and spare chip. I downloaded Tinder, Okcupid and Happn. Created a profile using blurred photos of a celebrity that many people said I looked like him-girls couldn’t even tell it wasn’t me when they saw me IRL-, put one some funny one -I’m good at that-, and started. Here are the results

  • tinder: 2 matches, one didn’t continue talking, I ghosted her. The other one, a bit older than me and unmatched me because she was looking of an LTR , The wall syndrome. It’s really tough to do it on Tinder because you cannot reveal your wit with blurred photos.
  • Happn: I got only one messages but they stopped texting, after 3 exchanges. I stopped too.
  • OkCupid: In my situation, It’s the best, because you can message the girls, without liking them or them liking you. So, I could send some funny shit and get them intrigued, but my photos scared them-, but some, even found my blurry photos “mysterious”.

I could secure two ‘dates’, one is for next week -still not sure, the second I fucked yesterday-here is how I did it.

The first one call her Girl ‘A’ and the second Girl ‘C’.

Girl ‘A’:

Asian, no picture due to strict parents. She said in her bio that she is horny and looking for LTR, LOL Here’s the interaction on the App and on phone. in image: [Girl ‘A’ screen shots] ( http://imgur.com/uTS0eSp)

Girl ‘C’.

A 33y.o. US woman living in my city. HB6, a bit chubby.

Interaction on the App: [Girl ‘C’ screen shots.] ( http://imgur.com/jRfFYFR)

Interaction on phone: [Girl ‘C’ screen shots.] ( http://imgur.com/ZIvSCqj )

For this one, I wanted to have sex with her, and not in my house because I have housemates. And I live a bit outside the city –can’t take her to a 40min train ride and bring her back after-. I knew the area she lives in, where there are some great places to see, I took her to a photography walk. I went for a badboy motorcyclist outfit -leather jacket that my colleagues complimented, jeans and boots-, I was stressed before I meet her, because I decided I’m going to get laid tonight, no question about it. Once I met her, everything went away, and came back to my extrovert self. First, she asked me about my batmobile, I told her: “I sent it back to my cave” and she went along this story all the night. Each time she asks my real name, real company or why I put blurry photos, I just say (I’m batman, I don’t want to be recognized, then change the subject. I aced one shit test after another. Each time we get some silence, I break it with some random shit. And whenever I feel out of balance I snap back to the redpill teachings, and see immediate results, especially when women ask questions and you can easily change subject, this shit doesn’t work with my buddies, we get deep into discussions and details can’t just be left. The most important thing that helped me is kino escalation. Here’s how I built it:

  • I started by some cheek kisses when we met
  • Started pressing her hands to explain some bullshit theory of mine about photography
  • Pushed her back to cross the streets
    • Touched her hair many times and neck for some bullshit explanation on why we can’t see the start now, and how great would be to make a necklace from star dust, really just random stuff.
    • Touched her thighs when I was explaining to her what muscles do we use when we go downstairs. At this moment, I knew that I gotta go for the kill (because we walked 90 minutes already)
    • At one moment, we were next to a Sushi place, I said:

      I’d like to inside and say: don’t give me how to eat a fish show me how to fish it!

She laughed and started correcting my saying, I pinched her cheeks, she liked it. Then I just looked at her eyes, and kissed her cheeks, then she started making out with me. That was my first time to kiss in the mouth, but it felt like something I always done, not sure if it was easy or I was rehearsed enough on my pillow LOL. I went for two rounds, then I pulled back letting her wanting more, and said:

I think we should go to your place! give me your address.

She gave me her address, and I continued like nothing happened, walking at night, just listening to her remarks about the houses and streets, and saying anything funny. She seemed to enjoy the random facts and stories I told her about the city and its history. Once we got to her building.

Her: here’s my flat

Me: Let’s go then

Her: I don’t know you

Me: You don’t need to

And started kissing her. She enjoys is -she always giggles when we kiss, and I remember someone here on the sub said, that if she giggles, she wants it-.

Me: let’s go.

Her: I’m not sure!

Me: you’re a big girl!

And walked her to the door of the building

She: will you go if I tell you so?

ME: Yes.

She: Are you sure??

ME: I can give you my spray, it works on bats/

and kissed her again.

She: what guarantees, you don’t kill me!

Me: I know, I look like Christian bale, but not in American psycho!

Then kissed her again

She: Okey, let’s go

Each time her hamster starts spinning I just go kiss her harder. This shit is hamsters’ kryptonite!

On the stairs to her flat, I started making how small the stairs are and the colors of the doors, etc. No awkward silence. Once we got inside, I put off my bag – I came directly from office - and took off my shoes, it was dim. We went to the waiting room, on the couch, and started kissing her. Kissing her neck, unzipped her dress, she started saying: what you’re doing, I reply: nothing and kiss her again. Then, I got my hands on her boobs and down to the pussy -like trump said-, she wanted to go to pee, I took off my clothes, and was just in boxers. I waited for her to clean, then once she emerged I just took her from the hands and led her to the bed. We had 2 hours play, she was all over me. She sucked my tongue so hard when I was inside her, that my tongue started to hurt after that. After 90 minutes, she came twice and I came once- I masturbated 4 times in the morning to avoid early cumming, I’m a high libido gum but it was a msitake-.

It was already 23:30. I told her:

see no one got killed! we had fun

Got dressed, kissed her again, played with her cat a bit. And took off. She texted me this morning saying she wants to see the photos we took.

Conclusion:

  • Guys, this shit here works. Not by reading one port or two. But by eating the sidebar, improving yourself, until it becomes second nature. Practice on familiar females if you’re not familiar with strangers. Then talk to strangers you don’t want to fuck, too. I’m familiar with cold approaches in professional networking events and stuff, it’s no big deal of me, but for a lot of people it’s hard, take it step by step.

  • Confidence, guys. In the whole sexual interaction, I never Asked her. I just went for it and she giggled like “Ooh, you tricked me!”. But don’t be a sperg, if she resists, just take a step back. IF you were trying to penetrate her and she pushed you, just go kiss her hard and finger her. I don’t know how I did it, but I noticed it works, until she started sucking me then brought the condom -I was a bit hasty due to inexperience-.

  • Sense of humor. This shit disarms chicks.

  • Be original in your texts. I used just my own wit to come up with something I relation to what their profile is saying. Once, she checks your profile -the App tells you who did- and answers back, it’s game on.

Sorry for the long post – and poor wording it’s late night-, even though I omitted many details to not bore you, but feel free to ask on the comments if you want.

Please, show me what was done right and wrong, to learn more. Thanks gentlemen.

// ***

TL;DR: 28y.o. , kissless guy, used online dating with no clear profile photos, got laid in 2 hours after meeting. Need opinions of the texts exchanges and the approach.

Thanks bros