Hello TRP,

A few weeks ago I met a gorgeous brunette, lets call her Tiffany, through a mutual friend group. At that time, I chatted with her for maybe 10 minutes, exchanging nothing more than simple pleasantries. Fast forward to this past weekend where I run into her again at said mutual friends place during a pregame.

Once again, I hardly talk to this girl during the pregame and in reality I was pretty distant towards her. She was very hot, but for whatever reason I just didn't feel like hitting on her. We finally make our way downtown around midnight. Once inside, our group heads to the bar for a round. As we're getting our drinks Tiffany and a friend are standing rather close to me so I turned and engaged them for a brief moment. After that, the group split up. A few of us went upstairs, while Tiffany and the others stayed downstairs. I went about the rest of my night like normal, hanging out with friends, laughing, generally having a great time.

A few hours of this go by when we decide to head back downstairs and see what the rest of the group is up to. We get back down to the bar and order a few more drinks. At this time, Tiffany walks straight up to me and engages me. No less than 2 minutes into the conversation, I just grab her hand and lead her to the dance floor.

The last hour at the bar was spent on the dance floor grinding away with this girl like there is no tomorrow. Shortly into dancing I am starting to get really turned on and she definitely notices. I turn her around to face me, place my hand on the back of her neck and pull her in for the make out. Everything is going well, and it is starting to near closing time so we decide to head back to mutual friends place. When we get back to mutual friends place, Tiffany and I end up taking the extra bedroom and having some phenomenal sex. The next morning, I wake up to find out that Tiffany had left early that morning for some family obligations.

I would really like to plate this girl; however, I never asked for her phone number during our encounter. The way I see it, I have three options to try and reach out to this girl.

  1. Do nothing and wait until the next time I run into her.
  2. Friend her on FB/Insta and initiate that way.
  3. Ask one of our mutual friends for her #.

This is one of the first times I've ever managed to sleep with a girl without already getting her number, so this is very new territory for me. Personally, I am leaning towards option 1; however, this is mostly because I rarely use social media, if at all, and I have never used it to initiate conversation with a girl. As a result, #2 is unexplored territory for me. Option #3 in my mind just seems really Beta and indirect, but I listed it anyway. I'd love to hear your thoughts on how you would approach this.

TL:DR -- Unexpectedly slept with a hot girl I met through mutual friends but I do not have her number. Now, I am looking for the best way to approach contacting this girl in attempt to plate her.