Why not just have multiple LTRs?

Certifiedfamilylaw · 2017-01-22T01:02:36+00:00

Time and it sounds awful

Arcturus_ · 2017-01-22T00:40:36+00:00

yungsed · 2017-01-22T01:16:15+00:00

I personally can't manage multiple LTRs at the same time, one already takes up a lot of time. Much easier to have a LTR with a 'good' woman and spin plates on the side IMO

absolucion · 2017-01-22T02:19:39+00:00

Time is the biggest challenge or at least it is for me. I'm dedicating as much time as I can to improving myself. Taking time away from those efforts to manage several LTRs at one time is out of the question and brings no value to me. There is also no reliable method to streamlining the process and therefore it is worthless (for me) to pursue. If you have enough time to dedicate to manage several LTRs, chances are pretty good you aren't working on bettering your situation and from my point of view, is a waste of time.

Managing several plates feels like a similar experience to me which is why I prefer LTRs to spinning plates (but don't take this as a criticism of men who orefer the opposite; more power to you all). I like to find one woman whose company I genuinely enjoy, who doesn't prevent me from achieving my goals, and who adds value to my life. If I can find more good but one is enough.

vandaalen · 2017-01-22T06:00:18+00:00

Personally having 2 or 3 LTRs + a few fuck buddies seems infinitely better than having a ton of fuck buddies.

LOL. You cleraly never had even two plates spinning, or you would know that even maintaining three plates can become a difficult task in terms of time management.

askmrcia · 2017-01-22T05:38:07+00:00

Here's the thing you need to realize. Do you really want to hurt your image? This is why its soooo hard for guys to cheat and not get caught let alone have multiple LTRs.

Girls can pull this off because they don't have to talk to a guy for weeks or months, but make a quick phone call and the guy will come running.

Not too many guys have that kind of power. Girls demand our attention. So tell me how the hell can you manage multiple LTRs when these women are going to want to start being around you and your friends?

Now if you have a rep as a scumbag then yea you can pull MLTRs off. But if you have a rep being a good guy with class, then I would avoid it much as possible.

Morals have nothing to do with it. Its about protecting your rep.

Laqurai · 2017-01-22T12:22:27+00:00

Just become a muslim, done

oldredder · 2017-01-23T10:43:59+00:00

The stress is too much. Just having 2 jobs would be painful, now have 2 long-term girlfriends? Fuck no. It's just adding more stress with not "more sex" to go with it because they want your time, your dedication, not just your dick. They will track where you go and when.

All_Ads_Deceive · 2017-01-22T01:02:27+00:00

Because these guys don't have the balls to date women. They can't prevent their feelz and think big bad womyn are going to hurt them. Women provide much more value than just sex.

There are women who are good for LTRs, mentally stable, good job, shared hobbies. There are women who are good fuck buddies, fun and not dramatic, then there are the dirty sluts that are fun to have flings with

Women will do anything for a good dick. Pussy boys just have sexy with women. Bosses run chicks

Title	Why not just have multiple LTRs?
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Date	January 22, 2017 12:33 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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