Since I joined, lots of posts I see here are about how hard or painful something is, whether its being single or living as a mgtow in general. Well I can tell a little bit different story.

I love being single. I ended my 6 years relationship like 6 months ago. At first it was harder, but now I love living by myself. And there are a few realisations I had since break up:

  1. Practice practice practice. As you would practice playing a piano,practice living a mgtow life. For example, start doing things alone-going to cinema, for lunch, to downtown, etc. That way you rewire brain, that you dont NEED others (I highlighted "need" because there is a difference between "it feels good being with others" and "I need to be with others"). Once you shed the notion that you need someone to be with you for you to be happy-its a whole new reality.
  2. You dont need women to be happy. I know, they might seem to be very interesting, sexy and so on., but reality is close to what the book "the predatory female" says--> women are like slot machines. You might think you are the winner for a short period of time, but in the long run you still lose. And thats very true (not the exact words from the book, but you get the idea). Its in their nature to become nagging, crying, controling creatures. Females cant do anything about it. You can get the most clever, warmhearted, total angel-like girl, but it wont be long till she becomes the one you would love to try some UFC moves on.
  3. You can live free. You want to sit at home all day long? Just do it. You want to travel? Go ahead. You just like women company and your way is to be with them? Meet women as much as you want if that brings you joy. If you dont agree with what I say here - dont follow my advice and live the way YOU want to live. Thats the whole point. And love yourself. Be gentle with yourself. And dont forget to thank yourself for many things.

Goodluck, Gentlemen.