Is Bodylanguage, Charisma, Confidence not enough if you are perceived Ugly -- Or Am I Just Not Good Enough At It Yet?

empatheticapathetic · 2017-01-24T23:07:42+00:00

I have the same problem as you. My going out buddy is a feminist BP faggot. Doesn't lift, scrawny, emotional, i could go on. But if we're both talking to some girls, he'll clean up and i'll end up nowhere, and hes hardly attractive, but hes more attractive than me in my face. I've never been too blue pill simply because being tough has been a survival technique growing up.

I don;t know what the solution is. The ONLY way women can perceive me as attractive is through serial killer vibe. And the moment i break that frame even slightly, they're done.

JuanLesPins · 2017-01-24T21:46:10+00:00

I've seen so many ugly guys with hot women that I can say that confidence is it. Nothing more. Be confident.

Now, where do you get this confidence from? In my case I get it from the fact that I know that I DO what is in my power to become a better person. I work on my goals and know that even when I'm not giving 100% I'm giving something everyday. Nothings beats that. My confidence comes from me, not from anyone else. This is happiness...

Want to know more about confidence, listen to the Black Philip Show. Patrice was a fat dude who "had to smile his way into pussy" as he said. No more man...

-drukpa-kunley- · 2017-01-24T22:37:34+00:00

You've got to offset your looks with other attributes that women find attractive. Social proof. Power. Charisma. Fit body. Wealth. Being well groomed.

Will you ever be able to compete with underwear models on Tinder? No way. But you can do well in your own arena.

TheBlackAlistar · 2017-01-24T23:38:35+00:00

Lifting has definitely boosted my confidence quite a lot. I'm always looking at my reflection and checking myself out. Now just to get out there and practice some day game and approach. Rip.

aurelius_shrugs · 2017-01-24T23:17:01+00:00

Have a buddy who is ugly as sin. Bad teeth, skinny. His game is strong. He gets laid like tile. More over, the guy with game convinces his girls to do the dirtiest shit.

Looks and abs make it easier to get laid. Not the be all and end all.

Title	Is Bodylanguage, Charisma, Confidence not enough if you are perceived Ugly -- Or Am I Just Not Good Enough At It Yet?
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Date	January 24, 2017 9:14 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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