I know that there's a difficulty in defining what a good model for a woman in a relationship is. I was extremely surprised to find one in 300, where I was expecting stereotypical bimbo characters typical to action movies.

[Spoilers for 300] The Spartan Queen in 300 is a perfect example of how a healthy relationship can be nothing like how Feminists want it to be. She's deferential to her husband, and obeys the masculine society that's she's a queen of. She's accepting of the fact that her voice as a woman isn't going to have much weight in the male council, but tries in the name of justice. Her relationship with her husband is definitely one that feminists might dislike, with the typical gender roles. But it works perfectly. I have this kind of relationship, and I think it's a good model to show women instead of just bashing how they currently are. Any other good movies or books where the relationship or society reflects how you think men and women should be, so that men don't have to GTOW? Or a good movie/book showing how going your own way works?