First of all, this is my first post on this subreddit and I’m sorry if it doesn’t belong here. I’m a 21 yo student. Lately I’ve been trying to go my own way without women because they just disrupt my focus on the important things in life. I want to graduate, get a good job, keep going to the gym, make a band and play music etc and all these interests seem to go away as soon as I’m with a girl. When I was heartbroken 2 years ago, I failed 4 courses from 8, skipped gym for about 3 months, stopped playing guitar and I was a bit suicidal.

My best friends only talk about girls. Whenever we’re chilling in a lounge, going to get some food, at the gym... They ALWAYS talk about girls. I know it’s normal for men to talk about women, I have nothing against it but I just want to talk about important things in life and fun subjects. All my friend does is show all 10 girls he’s talking to atm (which I’m happy for him, don’t want to sound jealous) but girls are the last thing I (want to) worry about atm. I talked to him about my recent achievements in gym and other stuff and all he said was: “well, but still I’m poppin pussy while you’re doing all that.” I kinda felt disrespected but didn’t want to fight it.

This is really getting on my nerves and my self esteem. What should I do?

Thank you and sorry for sloppy English, not my first language.