I’ll try to make this short but would be best with some context.

I’m a 30 year old white guy, been lifting almost a year and have about 7 years experience as a software engineer. I have only had sex with 1 girl in my life which was last year, which lasted about 5 months.

Over time I have become burned out from software development and feel that I don’t really enjoy it much anymore. The reasons could be to do with the fact that I’ve only really recently begun any attempts with women in 2015, and ever since then have been reading a lot, watching pua videos, splitting my focus. I'd much rather do anything to do with women or people than sit indoors and code all day now.

I’m trying a couple of new things at the moment, bjj and windsurfing, and have recently moved out from home. It’s good to have moved out but having a job that I don’t really enjoy, and one that screams beta to women isn’t helping.

Any advice? I honestly want to increase my # of women I’ve had sex with with right now, and find something that I enjoy more for work. I could alternatively take this time now to live in or visit thailand to get some life experience and time out from it all.

I may be asking for a quick fix here, but realise that this could take time. What would you guys recommend? Am I being crazy about thinking about giving up a good career like this?