Maintain the balance between Alpha and Beta

quicklogaccount · 2017-01-30T13:25:25+00:00

You're lying to yourself. A lot.

Don't LTR a girl for the favors she offers you. You're not a chick. The relationship you have with a plate isn't the same one you have with a girlfriend.

Anyway, the balance lies in how you act to support her.
If you're her tampon, she'll whine when she's feeling bad, and she'll want you to validate her sadness, cuddle and hug her, so she can increase those delicious and intense feelings of misery while getting comfort.
Sadness, validation, higher intensity of sadness.
If you're not her tampon, you'll get her to change her mood to a good one. Persuade her into it. She'll whine, you'll offer a solution and use whatever leverage you have to push her into a different state of mind. One in which she smiles and you fuck.
Sadness, solution, something else.

mrpoopistan · 2017-01-30T15:48:04+00:00

Bear in mind that balancing alpha and beta isn't a 50/50 split.

It's more like the balance between sugar and salt in a cookie recipe. Beta is the salt in this case -- trust me, women react to too much beta just about the way they would to a cookie with too much salt in it.

FTR, where you're likely fucking up is in providing comfort after sex. The best way to administer beta is in a post-orgasmic cuddle. Then finish the cuddle once she's recharged and push her over the edge with more fucking.

2435734098 · 2017-01-30T16:20:32+00:00

Unless she's constantly bringing it up, ignore it. Sounds like it was an isolated case, she was probably in a bad mood and exploded on you.

Title	Maintain the balance between Alpha and Beta
Author	ISwallowedRP
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	January 30, 2017 1:05 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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