What's the point of LTR woman who even had 1 casual sex?

forever_alpha · 2017-02-01T15:01:03+00:00

Because Sex - though crucial - is not the only thing that matters in a LTR.

[deleted] · 2017-02-01T15:43:05+00:00

So she has N=2.

Realize that a woman with N=2 is very rare nowadays. She didn't fuck every guy who wanted to fuck her. She didn't spread her legs every time she felt like it. She showed at least some restraint. Sure, she had one casual sex partner, maybe a ONS, maybe she was a plate. But she did that once. She probably had lots of other opportunities to be a plate or for ONSs, but did it one time and didn't do it again.

That aside, now it depends on what other qualities she has. Is she good looking? Can she cook, clean and take care of a house? Is she responsible, got a good head on her shoulders? Is she nice and kind to you? Cheerful disposition? Fun to be around? Those are the things you need to look at.

A woman with N=2 is really quite chaste and restrained, especially today, if we're talking about the US SMP.

quicklogaccount · 2017-02-01T15:31:58+00:00

Some men will disregard the low value of her sex if she's capable of providing enough reason in other fronts.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with being one of these man. Pretending to be or being fooled into acting as such, on the other hand, for whatever reasons you might have, will screw you up.

Unfortunately the trend is, otherwise worthless woman fulfill her need of affection by offering sex. Eventually she bumps into a reasonably attractive and highly sex starved man and manages to convince him that the "real" values for a relationship are the ones she's offering, whichever they are, and not sex.
The guy believes her and accepts it, only to eventually learn that he's not interested in whatever else she has to offer, but sex, and becomes insanely frustrated.

The standard you have is more experienced people forming couples between themselves. I believe this stems from their relative lower valuing of sex - sex was too abundant for them to be a valuable thing -.

shitwiththatass · 2017-02-01T15:09:15+00:00

There isn't. Within those two people she demonstrated what sex means to her.

Deraileur · 2017-02-01T16:20:24+00:00

You'll never really know if she's had 68 casual sexes or 2 casual sexes. Stop worrying about shit you can't control.

Squillimy · 2017-02-01T19:43:47+00:00

Lol cause when you get down to it casual sex really isn't that big of a deal, and relationships are more than just sex man. Women want to fuck and men want to fuck. Part of TRP philosophy is making girls think that they're lucky to have you, and not the other way around right?

If I'm looking for a LTR with someone, yes it's very important if the sex is good, but it's atleast just as important that we have a good emotional connection and have fun together. And honestly I'm not gonna be attracted to someone that isn't atleast little bit wild anyways. Not saying I want a total whore, But I'm not gonna get butt hurt my girlfriend fucked a few guys in highschool and college.

All that being said, If a girl I like comes along my way so be it, but as of right now I'm just enjoying all the casual sex with attractive women I can get :)

[deleted] · 2017-02-03T18:20:42+00:00

I said casual encounter

Title	What's the point of LTR woman who even had 1 casual sex?
Author	fakeplastictrees87
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Date	February 1, 2017 2:48 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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