I'll keep it as short as possible.

She's super rich from China.

We have a prenup for her stuff in China cause I am poor her family thought I want their money.

We have two boys (3 years old and 1 year old).

She said she will give me custody.

Mediator vs Lawyer? - I have no money to retain a lawyer right now. I gave up my job to move to China for her and can't find anything stateside.

I just want her to pay for the kids stuff and then I need to move to where my family is.

Lawyer vs mediator

Can I move with the kids?

Anyone with international experience?